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Back from Betrayal: Recovering from His Affairs
Back from Betrayal Recovering from His Affairs Author:Jennifer Schneider A ground-breaking book that shares startling revelations that can help you break the pattern of betrayal. Jennifer P. Scneider, M.D., reveals to readers that your husband or lover uses his affairs as compulsively as an alcoholic uses alcohol, and that you may be codependent without knowing it. Inspired by personal and professional experience, Dr... more ». Schneider examines codependency as it relates to addiction and addresses the anquish and helplessness that you feel. Dr. Schneider also explains how Twelve Step recovery programs can work for you, and she provides straightforward guidance to how to find such a group and how to choose a counselor.
"Offers insight into the sex addict, firm recognition that it is a complusive disorder, and the comfort and understanding that they (the wives and girlfriends) are not alone, and not to be shamed or blamed."
From the back cover: "When your lover or husband is continually involved in affairs or you suspect he is: Do you tell yourself he would stop if you were prettier, sexier, smarter or more successful: Do you tell yourself you haven't tried hard enough to please him? Do you tell yourself if he really loved you he would change? This book gives you a more realistic picture of why men cheat and charts a way to understanding and recovery for codependent women"