I love this book. It is awesome! It really helped us.
Very practical. Very helpful. Especially if you have grade school or older kids. Also read Parenting By The Book. This Boundries book would especially be a good tool for you if you tend towards giving in when your kids get emotional. If you are already a "do what I say when I say it" type then read something else...something that will help balance you out--not the other way around :-)