After I had a stillborn child, I was looking for any book, etc. that would help me through the grieving process. Although this book is not perfect (these books can't be "one size fits all"), this is the one I liked best. Numerous quotes from people that showed all sides to the grief process, and how one thing that bothers a person could very well be helpful to another. I would recommend this for someone going through a miscarriage, stillbirth or infant loss.