If I may comment..... you so don't think too much. You have to wonder about things or life becomes meaningless, tedious, and incredibly unbearable. That is not laziness, it is what you can do and what appears to be what you are great at. No one can say you are a good mother unless you actually are one. Career goals, Shmareer goals. If you are good at something, no matter what it is, do it! Quit worrying about what else you could be doing. There is always time for careers, but you can never have enough time for family.