This book was ok. I think the biggest thing to take away from it is to trust your instincts, but also think about what is important in a relationship to you. Some "little" things can be a huge deal. A man who believes every weekend should be spent playing or watching golf and every vacation should be to a golf resort probably shouldn't be married to a woman who hates the sport and thinks weekends are a time for couples to do things together. Someone who doesn't like to go out probably shouldn't be with someone who loves to explore the world. Being compatible is important.