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Nobody Told Me! Shame: The Impact of Shame in Multi-Generational Family Systems and Parenting Practices
Nobody Told Me Shame The Impact of Shame in MultiGenerational Family Systems and Parenting Practices Author:Denise Hayes Nobody told me! — ¨ I was shaming my child; — ¨ about the impact of shame on children; — ¨ how shame develops in family systems; — ¨ the role of parents in the development of shame; — ¨ what the emotional developmental needs of my child are; — ¨ that shame decimates self-esteem in a child; — ¨ about toxic, multi-gener... more »ational parenting rules and practices;
¨ about the poisonous pedagogy;
¨ that abuse means all kinds of abuse;
¨ about the everyday pain of abuse, and the consequences of shame;
¨ about abandonment, and its life-damaging impact;
¨ how I innocently carried my own unfinished business from childhood into my new family;
¨ about the need to recover from the shame of my own abuse. A Marriage and relationship Counselor and therapist looks back at the devastation experienced by people whose lives were affected by the shame in their childhood, and the unawareness of parents of the damage caused by multi-generational family rules and parenting practices that purport to be "for your own good". Nobody told me! is a training and resource manual for parent educators, counselors, therapists, health professionals and all those with influence over and responsibility for the children of today and parents of tomorrow.« less