Again, I tried to order a book and the member just pm'd me and said she mailed it to someone else. She asked me what she should do!!! I think what 5th book 4th problem.....

Some people are disorganized--at least she pm'd you--she could have just ignored you completely. 

Did she have a deal going and forget to delete the "freebie" from her shelf?

Huh?  What was her excuse?

Most likely has books listed here and on another trading site and forgot to remove the book from her shelf.

Yes, I can understand being unorgainized. I really can but to have to ask me basically do what do I do? Well my credit would be nice. I think this is not the place for me. Too many people messing up. I can understand one or two mistakes but this is crazy. How hard is it? I have been able to handle it wish others could.

Carrie, with very popular books (such as Grisham), you'll get that a lot. These books are often on shelves for many months and are often disposed of before they're claimed (and missed when updating the book shelf). Another thing, there is a known glitch where sometimes a book will double-post. This seems to happen more often with WL books, but it sometimes happens. If the person who posts a book and has 100+ books on the shelf, it's possible to miss it.

Hang in there! Things will get better!

Carrie, If the sender cancelled, you should have received your credit back.  Check your credit registry.  If not, you can PM R&R and they will take care of it. 

I try to be extra careful with my books but I had to do this once myself.   I put a book in as a "freebie" just because I wanted to (not an offer) and then forgot to take it off my bookshelf.   Sure enough, a few days later that book was requested.  DRATS!!  I hated having to say I'm sorry.   That book had been sitting on my shelf for months and no one wanted it UNTIL I gave it away.    Ooops on me!

I once posted a book as part of a batch. When it was requested much later, I realized that I shouldn't have listed it as it's a reference book that''d be tough to replace; I explained that to the requestor, and took it as my lesson to be more careful.

If the sender has canceled, your request will be passed on to someone else in the system with that book - so you'll still get your book.