Is there a way to view ones own wishlist as it is seen by other members?
You bet! I think it's just:
My Account > My Profile (waaaay over to the right)
If not, you can just click on someone else's and then go into the url bar and replace their username with your own (double-checked that method just not) ^.~
Also you can just click on the wishlist button in any of your own posts to these threads.
thanks guys... I figured there was
Thank you for your patience