Planning a second wedding presents the bride and groom with a variety of interesting challenges that they didn't have the first time around. Can you have a big extravagant affair? What if it's the groom's first marriage and the bride's second? Is it acceptable to ask your ex-husband's sister to be your maid of honor? Walk through the second wedding step by step and see what is acceptable in terms of attendants, the guest list, the size of the wedding, showers and the color and style of the dress. See what wording to use on the invitations, where everybody sits at the reception, and how to deal with the financial questions, offspring and other special considerations of that second time around. You want to get your new life off to a flawless start, and it's easy to do when you have this helpful etiquette guide leading you down the aisle.