I thought I had read it all in all my other Christian wife books, but I was wrong! All my other books tell me everything I've done wrong as a wife whereas Judy Bodmer tells the reader that she understands all the legitimate feelings you have, but also here's how to let go of all those negative emotions and work towards healing your marriage. It is nice to know I'm not alone and also, that someone else has gone through way less than me and still had the same issues. So, if you wonder if you married the wrong man, if you struggle with depression, if you feel like nothing will ever change, then you need to read this book. Just be prepared to own up to your side of the marital problems because it takes two!