"The first of our New York friends to make the trek northward were Peter and Alessandra Wolf. They arrived to share our first Thanksgiving in Rochester and were openly surprised at what they found. Instead of a depressed wife and exuberant, executive spouse, they recognized that just the reverswe was true. I consciously refrained from voicing my susupicion that all was not well, but after effectively monopolizing the conversatin with news of my job and the interesting people I had met through it, Peter turned to Jerry and asked, "But what about you? Eleanor seems to be going great guns, yet I don't get the same feeling from you."