I checked the Member Directory and there isn't a buddy tab by may name.   Why?   How can I put it there?  It makes me look unapproachable and unfriendly.   I've been on this site for about a month now and am still learning the site. 

Thanks.

If you click on your name at the top post it will take you to  tabs that say books posted wishlist etc. your buddy tab is there. I put you on my buddy list. If you want to be buddies with someone click on their name at the top of a post and press the buddy tab on their profile.

I just checked you do have a buddy tab. It just doesn't show up when you look yourself up. When I look up my name myself I don't have a buddy tab either.

Thank you so much!!!  I was worried. LOL.  : )