"You can deny all you want that there is etiquette, and a lot of people do in everyday life. But if you behave in a way that offends the people you're trying to deal with, they will stop dealing with you...There are plenty of people who say, 'We don't care about etiquette, but we can't stand the way so-and-so behaves, and we don't want him around!' Etiquette doesn't have the great sanctions that the law has. But the main sanction we do have is in not dealing with these people and isolating them because their behavior is unbearable."

• The Name on the White House Floor
• Gilbert
• Style and Substance
• Miss Manners' Guide to Excruciatingly Correct Behavior
• Miss Manners Rescues Civilization: From Sexual Harassment, Frivolous Lawsuits, Dissing and Other Lapses in Civility
• Miss Manners on Weddings
• Miss Manners on Painfully Proper Weddings
• Common Courtesy: In Which Miss Manners Solves the Problem That Baffled Mr. Jefferson
• Miss Manners' Guide for the Turn-of-the-Millennium
• Miss Manners' Basic Training: Communication
• Miss Manners' Basic Training: The Right Thing To Say
• Miss Manners' Basic Training: Eating
• Miss Manners' Guide to Rearing Perfect Children
• Star-Spangled Manners
• Miss Manners' Guide to Domestic Tranquility: The Authoritative Manual for Every Civilized Household, However Harried
• Miss Manners: A Citizen's Guide to Civility
• No Vulgar Hotel: The Desire and Pursuit of Venice