5 member(s) found this review helpful.
I really enjoyed this book. A look into the lives of a modern Afghan family through the eyes of a journalist from Sweden. She lived with this family for three months and wrote about her experiences with them. As a western woman, the treatment of women was disturbing, but I have to remember that this is their culture, not mine, and that is to be respected.
For me, this is one more book and means along the way to understanding the rest of the world.

Stella P. (
Tabby) wrote on 10/23/2007...
4 member(s) found this review helpful.
I couldn't put the book down. After a while I started feeling negative towards Sultan even though he was the bookseller and even though he treated his wives and children the way his culture and religion taught him a man should treat them. I particularly felt sorry for the women in the book.

Jacky K. (
Jacky) wrote on 9/10/2007...
4 member(s) found this review helpful.
Chilling account of life in Afghanistan, especially for the women. The consequences of almost constant war for the people and the change from one regime to another from one day to the next leaves confusion in the minds of the young people and a clinging to the old ways as a way to make sense of it all.
4 member(s) found this review helpful.
Just a fascinating account of life in Afghanistan, particularly as it relates to women. Written in "novel" form, but actually nonfiction journalism. Terrific read.
3 member(s) found this review helpful.
When I ordered this book I thought it was a novel of fiction. A sobering account of life in Afghanistan before/during/after the Taliban,I finished the book being thankful to be born in America.
3 member(s) found this review helpful.
Not bad for an updated view of Afgan society, but I found it heavily filtered through Western eyes.
2 member(s) found this review helpful.
Enjoyed the author's style. She was able to give a glimpse of life in Afghanistan without being judgemental.

Heather G. (
msgrange) wrote on 11/22/2006...
2 member(s) found this review helpful.
Very interesting insight of Afghanistan but does not have a strong story line. It really is just a brief look at a true life family and their daily life.

Lenka S. (
Minehava) wrote on 8/3/2009...
1 member(s) found this review helpful.
Everyone here rated this book around 4*, I rate it 2* and here is why:
The book was choppy and has disorganized timeframe. Hard to read, as the story is jumping from between years and people from page to page, you often get before Taliban, Americans, and Taliban eras mixed together in that order on the same page. The story line is weak and wavers between different characters and stories, and mingles with the narrators story.
The only time the book got interesting was when the author was telling side story of one of the unimportant characters, the bookseller's shuned first wife, the carpenter, or the poor relation (10 year old boy) he made into his personal slave for food.
This book can open a picture for a clueless person into one man's life in Taliban ruined country. But you don't get a clear picture of women or the lifes of other people under Taliban rule. Someone who has been in that area can see that this is a common story of a cruel man made into passive-fighter-hero because of his ability to be shrude and plagerising businessman. His story is not special, his character is over glamorized and the writing is hard to follow.
I don't see what made the female author so impressed about this heartless, showinistic, and selfish example of humanity to return to Kabul and put him into this book. The man was selling mostly postcards not books, he made big show or 'resisting' Taliban but he him self would have been happy if the man (carpenter) who stole a pack of his postcards (plagerised pictures reprinted) to have his hand cut off as the Islamic fundamentalist would have done. The author never notes that taking someone's work: be it postcards or authors rights to the pictures is stealing. She glamorizes the bookseller but condems the carpenter, and yet they are both thiefs.
Besides, there are others worthy of having their story told, those who took greater risks, Secret teachers, TV-satelite-PC-music-alcohol sellers who did live on the edge, not to mention the northren resistance...
The book it self is like the main character, interesting enough to keep you plowing thrugh the 80% of blah. The story or the writing is mediocar at best.
1 member(s) found this review helpful.
Dry story of a family's struggles in politically unsettled Afghanistan with a focus on the home life. I liked Not Without My Daugher better.