From the inimitable Anne Tyler, a rich and compelling novel about a mismatched marriageand its consequences, spanning three generations.
They seemed like the perfect coupleyoung, good-looking, made for each other. The moment Pauline, a stranger to the Polish Eastern Avenue neighborhood of Baltimore (though she lived only twenty minutes away), walked into his mothers grocery store, Michael was smitten. And in the heat of World War II fervor, they are propelled into a hasty wedding. But they never should have married.
Pauline, impulsive, impractical, tumbles hit-or-miss through life; Michael, plodding, cautious, judgmental, proceeds deliberately. While other young marrieds, equally ignorant at the start, seemed to grow more seasoned, Pauline and Michael remain amateurs. In time their foolish quarrels take their toll. Even when they find themselves, almost thirty years later, loving, instant parents to a little grandson named Pagan, whom they rescue from Haight-Ashbury, they still cannot bridge their deep-rooted differences. Flighty Pauline clings to the notion that the rifts can always be patched. To the unyielding Michael, they become unbearable.
From the sound of the cash register in the old grocery to the counterculture jargon of the sixties, from the miniskirts to the multilayered apparel of later years, Anne Tyler captures the evocative nuances of everyday life during these decades with such telling precision that every page brings smiles of recognition. Throughout, as each of the competing voices bears witness, we are drawn ever more fully into the complex entanglements of family life in this wise, embracing, and deeply perceptive novel.
Marta J. (booksnob) from AUSTIN, TX wrote on 11/23/2005...
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A terrific book that honestly explores the complexities of families and relationships.
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Greta S. from BATESVILLE, AR wrote on 10/12/2007...
Anne Tyler's novel concerning the marriage of Michael and Pauline Anton. The St. Louis Post-Dispatch couldn't have said it better, "This is a story not of extraordinary but of everyday drama. Just two people fumbling through life, amateurs in a game you must occasionally fail at first to become a pro."
Good one!
Rachel G. (rachelg) from ROBBINSVILLE, NJ wrote on 7/22/2007...
This book tugs at the heartstrings. Makes me appreciate my husband in a whole new way.
Peg H. (bookpeg) from DENVER, CO wrote on 4/11/2007...
Another great book by Anne Tyler.
Lara M. from WOONSOCKET, RI wrote on 3/29/2007...
good book.
Christine E. (Scaper) from SAINT LOUIS, MO wrote on 3/24/2007...
Wise book about everyday drama.
Lin G. (LinG) from LOS ANGELES, CA wrote on 3/16/2007...
Frequently wishlisted book by wonderful author.
From the cover of trade paperback edition:
"[Tyler is] one of our most notable explorers of current American domestic manners. . . .[this is her] most ambitious work, ranging over sixty years of American experience." -- The New York Times Book Review
"Tyler's heartbreaking new novel. . . evokes the entire sweep of Michael and Pauline Anton's marriage with uncommon delicacy and dignity. . . .This is a story not of extraordinary but of everyday drama. Just two people fumbling through life, amateurs in a game you must occasionally fail at first to become a pro." -- St. Louis Post-Dispatch
"A disarming, deceptively rich book, one that will persuade readers to rethink their position and reinvest a sense of wonder in one of our best contemporary authors." -- The Atlanta Journal-Constitution
"Wise, witty. . .Tyler writes with such resonance the 'The Amateur Marriage has the richness of an epic." -- Milwaukee Journal Sentinel
"Wise and observant. . . [Anne Tyler] has the uncanny ability to expose the most confusing contradictions of love." -- The Miami Herald
Elise L. (tortiecat) from READING, MA wrote on 2/27/2007...
Typical Anne Tyler fare--funny, sad, bittersweet, comic story of a marriage and a family through the years. As always, beautifully written.
Nancy M. (ImL8) from EVANSTON, WY wrote on 8/9/2006...
This is an examination of all the personal experience, personality traits, prejudices, unspoken suffering, and joys that go into a marriage of 50 years.
Mary Beth T. from PASO ROBLES, CA wrote on 6/12/2006...
Interesting look on marriage and how it evolves over time.
Alice H. (NelClarAl) from WELLESLEY, MA wrote on 4/27/2006...