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Back When We Were Grownups
Author: Anne Tyler

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Publisher: Ballantine Books
Book Type: Paperback
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ISBN-13: 9780345477248 - ISBN-10: 0345477243
Publication Date: 10/26/2004
Pages: 336


Other Versions of this Book: Paperback, Hardcover, Audio Cassette (Unabridged), Audio CD (Unabridged), Hardcover

Book Description:
"Once upon a time, there was a woman who discovered that she had turned into the wrong person." So Anne Tyler opens this irresistible new novel.

The woman is Rebecca Davitch, a fifty-three-year-old grandmother. Is she an impostor in her own life? she asks herself. Is it indeed her own life? Or is it someone else’s?

On the surface, Beck, as she is known to the Davitch clan, is outgoing, joyous, a natural celebrator. Giving parties is, after all, her vocation—something she slipped into even before finishing college, when Joe Davitch spotted her at an engagement party in his family’s crumbling nineteenth-century Baltimore row house, where giving parties was the family business. What caught his fancy was that she seemed to be having such a wonderful time. Soon this large-spirited older man, a divorcé with three little girls, swept her into his orbit, and before she knew it she was embracing his extended family plus a child of their own, and hosting endless parties in the ornate, high-ceilinged rooms of The Open Arms.

Now, some thirty years later, after presiding over a disastrous family picnic, Rebecca is caught un-awares by the question of who she really is. How she answers it—how she tries to recover her girlhood self, that dignified grownup she had once been—is the story told in this beguiling, funny, and deeply moving novel.

As always with Anne Tyler’s novels, once we enter her world it is hard to leave. But in Back When We Were Grownups she so sharpens our perceptions and awakens so many untapped feelings that we come away not only refreshed and delighted, but also infinitely wiser.


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Jill B. (PuppyMama) - Dacula, GA wrote on 2/22/2007...

1 member(s) found this review helpful.

Fifty-three yr. old Rebecca reflects on the past thirty years. How she married an older man with three little girls and became caught up in the whirlwind of their lives. Now after Joe's death, she questions who she really is. A funny, deeply moving and charming story.

Allison W. (sealady) wrote on 1/10/2006...

1 member(s) found this review helpful.

Amazon.com's Best of 2001
The first sentence of Anne Tyler's 15th novel sounds like something out of a fairy tale: "Once upon a time, there was a woman who discovered she had turned into the wrong person." Alas, this discovery has less to do with magic than with a late-middle-age crisis, which is visited upon Rebecca Davitch in the opening pages of Back When We Were Grownups. At 53, this perpetually agreeable widow is "wide and soft and dimpled, with two short wings of dry, fair hair flaring almost horizontally from a center part." Given her role as the matriarch of a large family--and the proprietress of a party-and-catering concern, the Open Arms--Rebecca is both personally and professionally inclined toward jollity. But at an engagement bash for one of her multiple stepdaughters, she finds herself questioning everything about her life: "How on earth did I get like this? How? How did I ever become this person who's not really me?"


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Susan F. (steelersfan457) wrote on 7/24/2009...


I enjoyed this as I found it introspective and also funny.

ANNA S. (SanJoseCa) wrote on 1/15/2009...


This story is about a woman in her 50's looking back on all the important relationships in her life. She reflects on the choices she made as well as the "what ifs." This could have been just a story about a mid-life crises, but it is much more! It is a thoughtful reflection on the meaning of life defined by choices. This novel has many funny, even laught out loud moments as well as touching ones. Tyler writes about everyday life and makes it memorable!

Brandy B. (ecolover) wrote on 11/10/2008...


I really enjoyed this book! Even as a 30 year old mother, it really opened my eyes to allow me to see that it is important to keep my own person and not just delve into my children's life only.

Lynn C. (lynncorrado) wrote on 3/17/2007...


interesting read

Karin Z. (kzdaisy) wrote on 2/11/2007...


good book

Bill M. (billymac00) wrote on 12/23/2006...


NY Times Bestseller

Elaine M. (ElaineMB) wrote on 10/31/2006...


A great read. The characters are believable and endearing.

Margaret G. wrote on 9/3/2006...


I enjoyed this book. About love, people, sentimental. Liked the characters. I remember laughing.

Niki L. (nikithetiger) wrote on 7/31/2006...


Not my type of book. I read it because our book club was reading it. It was good for what it was... but I like books that have more things happening.


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