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Shame Guilt : Masters of Disguise
Author: Jane Middelton-Moz

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Publisher: HCI
Book Type: Paperback
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ISBN-13: 9781558740723 - ISBN-10: 1558740724
Publication Date: 9/1/1990
Pages: 155


Other Versions of this Book: Audio Cassette

Book Description:
"It is my feeling that debilitating shame and guilt are at the root of all dysfunctions in families," says Jane Middelton-Moz.

A few common characteristics of adults shamed in childhood:

You may suffer extreme shyness, embarrassment and feelings of being inferior to others. You don't believe you make mistakes, you believe you are a mistake.
You feel controlled from the outside and from within. You feel that normal spontaneous expression is blocked.
You may suffer from debilitating guilt; you apologize constantly.
You have little sense of emotional boundaries; you feel constantly violated by others; you frequently build false boundaries.

If you see yourself in any of these characteristics, you can learn how shame keeps you from being the person you were born to be and how to change that. Shame And Guilt describes how debilitating shame is created and fostered in childhood and how it manifests itself in adulthood and in intimate relationships. Through the use of myths and fairytales to portray different shaming environments, Dr. Middelton-Moz allows you to reach the shamed child within you and to add clarity to what could be difficult concepts.

Read Shame and Guilt - you're worth it.



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Leena L. (leenaanneli) wrote on 3/10/2008...

1 member(s) found this review helpful.

This is an excellent self-help book on debilitating shame and guilt, on how they are created in dysfunctional families and how they manifest themselves in our adult lives. I usually hate underlining and making notes on books but I did it with this one because I knew it was a keeper. Several descriptions fit my life to a tee, only expressed more clearly than I could have. My only complaint is that this book is light on how to *recover* from pathological shame and guilt. It basically gives you one solution: talk about your shame to someone, and then it ends. But it describes the symptoms better than any other shame book I've read so far, and recognizing where your behavior patterns originate is winning half the battle already.


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