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A Child Called "It": One Child's Courage to Survive
Author: Dave Pelzer

Book Information
Publisher: HCI
Book Type: Paperback
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ISBN-13: 9781558743663 - ISBN-10: 1558743669
Publication Date: 9/1/1995
Pages: 195


Other Versions of this Book: Audio Cassette (Unabridged)

Book Description:

This book chronicles the unforgettable account of one of the most severe child abuse cases in California history. It is the story of Dave Pelzer, who was brutally beaten and starved by his emotionally unstable, alcoholic mother: a mother who played tortuous, unpredictable games--games that left him nearly dead. He had to learn how to play his mother's games in order to survive because she no longer considered him a son, but a slave; and no longer a boy, but an "it."

Dave's bed was an old army cot in the basement, and his clothes were torn and raunchy. When his mother allowed him the luxury of food, it was nothing more than spoiled scraps that even the dogs refused to eat. The outside world knew nothing of his living nightmare. He had nothing or no one to turn to, but his dreams kept him alive--dreams of someone taking care of him, loving him and calling him their son.


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Top Member Book Reviews

Josephanie A. (puppyfred) wrote on 6/21/2007...

20 member(s) found this review helpful.

This book is a sad tale that is very typical of children in foster care today. Most will read this story and be shocked at the malicious treatment Dave received as a child. However, I, as a child abuse attorney based in Los Angeles, CA, who has represented perhaps thousands of children found myself thinking, "I've seen worse." as I read of Dave's horiffic plight.

Unfortunately, such abuse as Dave's is none too common in today's world. Quite often, I've been asked by the unsympathetic fool, "What is the worst case of child abuse you've seen?" My common response is, "Do you mean where the child lived, or where the child died?"

Most of this abuse goes on right under our noses, unnoticed, and that, is the true tragedy of this story. Kudos to Dave for his ability to survive and his strength to share his story.

Alisha T. (yankeemom02) wrote on 8/5/2007...

19 member(s) found this review helpful.

Unimaginable account of a child abused. I received this book in the early afternoon and finished it in record time. I could not put it down. This book makes me thankful for the things that I have. It also makes me want to hold my children a little tighter. I recommend this book to everyone.

We as a nation should want to do more to stand up against child abuse. Don't look the other way or close the blinds. STOP turning the other way on the future of our Country. These children are our future lets nurture them and show them the unconditional love that each child deserves.

Have the tissue box ready. This is a very sad one.
Cant wait to read the next.

Nanette M. wrote on 7/10/2007...

11 member(s) found this review helpful.

Heartbreaking and moving, this book tells the story of one child's abuse he suffers at the hands of his parents. This true story is NOT an easy read; you will be horrified, angry, and outraged at the hell this child was put through.

Danielle (DaniLynn) wrote on 3/17/2006...

10 member(s) found this review helpful.

This was an amazing book. You feel like you're there with this incredible child while he experiences all of these horrible things. I cried the entire time I read this book.

Michele S. (queenofeverything) wrote on 10/9/2007...

8 member(s) found this review helpful.

Wow. There are some "monster moms" in this world and this guy had a doozer of one. I had to put this book aside several times because it was so intense what this poor boy endured and it is so heartbreaking.

A. J. C. (Bibliocrates) wrote on 7/11/2007...

8 member(s) found this review helpful.

I was completely horrified while reading about what this poor boy endured. Why was David singled out? This book is very sad, heartbreaking! David must have had a powerful spirit to have overcome all of the abuse he suffered through. I wonder what sort of men his brothers grew up to be. Are they psychologically damaged from witnessing all of that abuse? I can't imagine! I highly recommend this book, but it is very difficult to read, many tears were shed. Once I started, I couldn't put it down.

Kelly N. (mommytsunami) wrote on 6/3/2007...

7 member(s) found this review helpful.

Very disturbing account of child abuse. This book partially inspired my husband and I to become foster parents.

Monica H. (luckyfaery) wrote on 2/20/2008...

6 member(s) found this review helpful.

This book really broke my heart... it tells the story of a beautiful little boy who is abused and tortured by his own mother. Anyone who loves children and wants to better understand what abuse of any kind, but especially of this magnitude, can do to the heart and mind of a child should read this book. It's amazing how this little boy lived though the early years of his life, and even more amazing that he was able to grow into a healthy, talented man who wrote one incredible book.

Jennifer W. (GeniusJen) wrote on 12/29/2007...

4 member(s) found this review helpful.

This is one of the most heartbreaking stories you'll ever read. That being said, it's also very hard to actually read it. The level of abuse that Dave Pelzer suffered at the hands of his mother is truly indescribable, and I truly admire the man he's become. I don't honestly know if I could be as well-adjusted, not to mention humble, forgiving, and anger-free, as this man is.

This is one book you'll truly remember forever.

Heather S. (boydheather17) - Redmond, OR wrote on 10/24/2007...

4 member(s) found this review helpful.

Wow what a story! The author, who was this child, tells the reader a very detailed, yet very painful story about a childhood of heartbreak and pain, abuse, ridicule, but don't get me wrong, this is painful, but worth the read. He takes the reader through tears and joy, hunger a turmoil, an emotional rollercoaster, you find your heart fighting for this boy. A must read!


Please Rate these Book Reviews

Beth O. wrote on 10/28/2009...


this was a very sad and astonishingly vivid account of child abuse! dave pelzer is very much admired for having the strength and courage to write of his life. everyone should read!!

Lance S. (Lance99) wrote on 10/19/2009...


This book really made me think of a young boy that was in a similar situation in ohio. This boy was mentally handicapped and the parents left him in a closet to die while they went to a reunion. I cannot imagine any child having to go through that.

Felicia C. (quietmousie) wrote on 10/12/2009...


This is a very good book. It will make you mad, and make you sad, but it's still a story of hope. It's amazing!

Dawn B. wrote on 10/11/2009...


A very good book. It was hard to put down. You really feel so sorry for David and everything that he went through.

Kathy F. (lilelf) wrote on 9/15/2009...


I couldn't put this book down, i wish ihad his mothers neck in my hands. am waiting for the next book to hopefully find out shes behind bars. I am glad to know he grew up to be a great guy. God Bless you Dave Pelzer:)

Taunya M. wrote on 8/31/2009...


sad but well written and an eye opener

Nikki K. (Roper831) wrote on 8/22/2009...


This book was nothing like I expected. I knew it was going to be a difficult book to read but I didn't expect it to be so short. I didn't like the way it ended, then I realized it's the first book in a series so I guess I'll have to read the next book. This book opened up lots of questions for me. I don't understand why Mother was so bad to David but she treated the other 4 boys so well. It really makes you wonder why people abuse their children. I will warn anyone one who is thinking about reading this book, it does get a little hard to handle once in a while.

Mary A. (sweetscooker) - Caribou wrote on 7/21/2009...


A very sad story about the physical and emotional abuse one little boy had to suffer at the hands of his unfeeling mother. It is very hard to believe that a mother could subject a child to this kind of torment.

Stacey C. (HarleyMumof2) wrote on 6/9/2009...


Sad, sad. Great story, but sad in all it's truths.

Karen G. (KayLeeG) wrote on 5/30/2009...


Predictable !


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