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ISBN-13: 9781558743663 - ISBN-10: 1558743669 Publication Date: 9/1/1995 Pages: 195 |
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Book Reviews of A Child Called "It": One Child's Courage to Survive
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20 member(s) found this review helpful.
This book is a sad tale that is very typical of children in foster care today. Most will read this story and be shocked at the malicious treatment Dave received as a child. However, I, as a child abuse attorney based in Los Angeles, CA, who has represented perhaps thousands of children found myself thinking, "I've seen worse." as I read of Dave's horiffic plight.
Unfortunately, such abuse as Dave's is none too common in today's world. Quite often, I've been asked by the unsympathetic fool, "What is the worst case of child abuse you've seen?" My common response is, "Do you mean where the child lived, or where the child died?"
Most of this abuse goes on right under our noses, unnoticed, and that, is the true tragedy of this story. Kudos to Dave for his ability to survive and his strength to share his story.
19 member(s) found this review helpful.
Unimaginable account of a child abused. I received this book in the early afternoon and finished it in record time. I could not put it down. This book makes me thankful for the things that I have. It also makes me want to hold my children a little tighter. I recommend this book to everyone.
We as a nation should want to do more to stand up against child abuse. Don't look the other way or close the blinds. STOP turning the other way on the future of our Country. These children are our future lets nurture them and show them the unconditional love that each child deserves.
Have the tissue box ready. This is a very sad one.
Cant wait to read the next.
11 member(s) found this review helpful.
Heartbreaking and moving, this book tells the story of one child's abuse he suffers at the hands of his parents. This true story is NOT an easy read; you will be horrified, angry, and outraged at the hell this child was put through.
Danielle (
10 member(s) found this review helpful.
This was an amazing book. You feel like you're there with this incredible child while he experiences all of these horrible things. I cried the entire time I read this book.
Michele S. (
8 member(s) found this review helpful.
Wow. There are some "monster moms" in this world and this guy had a doozer of one. I had to put this book aside several times because it was so intense what this poor boy endured and it is so heartbreaking.
A. J. C. (
8 member(s) found this review helpful.
I was completely horrified while reading about what this poor boy endured. Why was David singled out? This book is very sad, heartbreaking! David must have had a powerful spirit to have overcome all of the abuse he suffered through. I wonder what sort of men his brothers grew up to be. Are they psychologically damaged from witnessing all of that abuse? I can't imagine! I highly recommend this book, but it is very difficult to read, many tears were shed. Once I started, I couldn't put it down.
Kelly N. (
7 member(s) found this review helpful.
Very disturbing account of child abuse. This book partially inspired my husband and I to become foster parents.
Monica H. (
6 member(s) found this review helpful.
This book really broke my heart... it tells the story of a beautiful little boy who is abused and tortured by his own mother. Anyone who loves children and wants to better understand what abuse of any kind, but especially of this magnitude, can do to the heart and mind of a child should read this book. It's amazing how this little boy lived though the early years of his life, and even more amazing that he was able to grow into a healthy, talented man who wrote one incredible book.
Jennifer W. (
4 member(s) found this review helpful.
This is one of the most heartbreaking stories you'll ever read. That being said, it's also very hard to actually read it. The level of abuse that Dave Pelzer suffered at the hands of his mother is truly indescribable, and I truly admire the man he's become. I don't honestly know if I could be as well-adjusted, not to mention humble, forgiving, and anger-free, as this man is.
This is one book you'll truly remember forever.
Heather S. (
4 member(s) found this review helpful.
Wow what a story! The author, who was this child, tells the reader a very detailed, yet very painful story about a childhood of heartbreak and pain, abuse, ridicule, but don't get me wrong, this is painful, but worth the read. He takes the reader through tears and joy, hunger a turmoil, an emotional rollercoaster, you find your heart fighting for this boy. A must read!
2 member(s) found this review helpful.
This was a very heart wrenching book. Just the fact that there are humans in this world that could treat any child this way is almost unbelievable. Dave turned out to be a very brave man by telling the world his story.
2 member(s) found this review helpful.
This book was very compelling. It is a sad tale of a boy named "Dave" whom his mother referred to as "it". It is horrifying to think this abuse was going on right under the noses of neighbors, school administration, etc. You will feel Dave's pain from the first page to the end. Note: you will want to read the sequel(s) to this book to see what has happened to the rest of his life.
2 member(s) found this review helpful.
I can't really say that I "liked" this story, as it is incredibly sad, horrifying, and made me feel homicidal at times! However, it will always be one of my favorites for the way it touched my heart and soul. This book will break your heart, wholly and completely, but it is riveting and inspirational. The abuse that this child lived with is incredible and tragic. I read this book many years ago, when my (now almost 9 years old) son was still a baby. Not a day goes by that I don't think about this (true!) story, or reflect upon the emotions it brought up. I would urge anyone with children, or that works with children, to read this. It really demonstrates the effect that our actions have on children, and will leave you with a deep appreciation of the strength and individuality that every child possesses. I don't think anyone would regret reading this book, or be able to resist hugging a child afterwards.
Jamie B. (
2 member(s) found this review helpful.
Okay, I know this book has been reviewed to no end, but I thought I'd give it a try anyway.
I began reading this unbelieveably horror filled and incredibly sad TRUE story of this little boy named Dave at 11pm and finished it at 3am. I just COULD NOT put this book down. I had tears roll down my face several times and I had that all too familiar lump in my throat pretty much from page one. I tried and tried to swallow it away, but it stayed ... even for several hours AFTER the book was over. I don't recommend you read this book right before you go to bed, because you won't be able to sleep afterward.
It's difficult for me to say that this book was GREAT or AWESOME or A MUST READ (even though it sorta is) because you know that this story was REAL and Dave Pelzer lived through it all, although I do not know how. I was left with A LOT of questions though (Like WHY!?!?!? and HOW!?!?!?), the book seemed to just end (although I am not sure I could stomach mentally anymore of it, to be honest ... ).
This book chronicles his life from ages 4 to 12 and the sequel, The Lost Boy, is form his ages 12 to 18 and promises to answer a lot of the questions that obviously he knew we'd all be asking ourselves once the reading of this book was finished.
This is not a book that I would ever personally want to reread, but one that will stay with me for the rest of my life. It also makes you stop and be thankful for what you have, and that the system we have in place today to protect children is SOOOOO much better (even though there are still flaws) than it was back in the late 60's, early 70's.
Kathleen K. (
2 member(s) found this review helpful.
Good book about terrible child abuse. Good but hard to read at times.
1 member(s) found this review helpful.
Such a sad and moving book. Makes you wonder how a parent can be so cold and uncaring to a child. Not the faint of heart.
Karen D. (
1 member(s) found this review helpful.
I think this has to be one of the saddest cases of child abuse. I cant imagine a mother doing this to her child.The things she puts this little boy through is unimaginable.It was a shame the father didnt step up and do more.Im surprised his brothers didnt receive abuse.The mother was truly sick and needed help.This book will truly tug at your heart strings and make you grateful you have a loving family,I read this book a few years back and it still sticks with me today.This is one book you should read.
1 member(s) found this review helpful.
OMG..How can you say you loved a bok when that book breaks your heart.A true story of a young boy who endures so much pain in his life and has a strong will to live, as well as a forgiving heart. LOVED IT
1 member(s) found this review helpful.
This book will make you hug your children just a little tighter. Dave Pelzer endured horrible treatment from both of his alcoholic parents yet he emerged on the other side and now dedicates his life to helping educate others and saving fragile little lives. There are more books in this series so I will definitely be ordering the others since this first book leaves many questions unanswered. Images of what he endured are still swirling through my mind.
Sara - Grove City reviewed on 7/28/2009...
1 member(s) found this review helpful.
I loved and hated this book. I couldn't put it down and when I did it was to cry or compose myself.Everyone should read this book from young to old, it's heart wrenching,yet touching, I wanted to hug my son and tell him if I've ever said anything to hurt him or make him feel sad I'm sorry and love him.This is a must read but do it somewhere loud outbursts of sobbing and yelling will be tolerated.
1 member(s) found this review helpful.
I read this book about 2 1/2 years ago. After this book my reading took off.This is one of the best books I have read.This book does have some sad things happening to a child .Aftr You read this you will realize how thankful we should be.This book is not all sad.Read a couple of books and see how he is doind today.Better then me.
1 member(s) found this review helpful.
Wow, the stuff this kid survives...and ultimately manages to thrive in spite of...it's amazing. I have the whole series and think it is absolutely worthwhile. It definitely gives most of us a perspective that we could NEVER have it as bad as this poor kid, and if HE can survive, so can we! I know that the school I teach at requires it for reading in English class. It is a VERY GRAPHIC book, full of violence and situations that will make your stomach turn. But ultimately, it is a book everyone should read.
Judy B. (
1 member(s) found this review helpful.
Part of the title of this book is "An Inspirational Story." I wasn't inspired; I was white hot mad. Please someone tell me that monster mother got her just desserts. Is she in prison, a mental hospital, dead? It certainly makes me a bit disgusted when I hear children whine because they have to clear the dinner table. Very disturbing book.
1 member(s) found this review helpful.
this book was amazing! It is written very well. I read it in 1 day. Hard to read, because of what he went through, but a great book!
Kelly (
1 member(s) found this review helpful.
Dave Pelzer’s A Child Called “It” is a very incredible story about negligence and abuse that a mother gives to her son. This novel is easy to read, but hard to understand how a mother would treat a child this way. Yet, there is so much to admire about Dave Pelzer since there were conditions that he was unfortunately going through. What is so amazing is that the novel is told in the perspective of a child, it uses metaphors, dialect, has good sentence structure, and it has many themes that we can all relate to.
Dave Pelzer is telling his own story as if he were a child. He talks about how amazingly bad he was treated by his alcoholic mother. This really amazes me since he was only four years old when this sudden abuse started. Pelzer uses good description in his novel by using descriptive words which got some sort of mental picture in my head. Like when he says that “…I snatched another rag, rolled it up and stuffed it in my mouth. I focused all my attention on the thumb and first finger of my left hand, as I pinched the skin around my slit. With my other hand, I wiped away the pus: The pain from the pinching was more than I could stand. I believe he is a true genius in writing novels since this is also somewhat of an autobiography.
Pelzer uses metaphors in his writing. For example when he says that his mother used to compare him/refer him to an “it” rather than calling him her child, son, or Dave. Also, when saying that he was an object and that he did not mean anything to his mother and even so Pelzer still “loved” her.
Dialect was, for me, an important feature in this novel. Like when Pelzer calls her “The Bit**” for the maltreating that he had gotten since his mother called him “The boy”. This is also slang in a way. The words take me in and this is not just like any novel with its amazing uses of words.
His variety of usage of sentence structure gives it a meaning and it makes the novel more comprehendible. For example this sentence: “Before I sat on my hands, I checked my shirt; only small drops of blood escaped from the wound to the rag bandage.” This has a compound structure and it uses a semicolon.
There are many themes in this incredible novel. One for example, is life is too short to give up. This theme goes along well with the novel. Even though that he was going through many obstacles he kept on going and he had hope and faith that he was going to keep on living. Also, another theme is that love goes on. Even though Pelzer made it seem like he hated his mother he said that he still loved her and that after all she was the woman who gave him birth.
This novel is incredible and I would call this good literature since it made me give out an emotional response. I am sure that this story would touch anyone out there who decides to pick up this book and read it. It does use literary devices and he kept his writing simple and not to complicated so anyone could read it. This story has touched everyone who has read it and it has a message for all to understand."
1 member(s) found this review helpful.
As being a birth mother of 2 children and an adopted mother of one. This book kept me in touch with what it may have been like fo rhte child I adopted. God Bless Dave Pelzer!!!
1 member(s) found this review helpful.
When I first read this book I cried and cried. How can anyone be so cruel to a little child. When I read it a second time I began to understand that He was writing the story for his own sanity and to help others. There are 2 more books that follow this story.To have the kind of forgivness he has toward his mother is super-courage. It is sure worth the time to read this book, but when you are finished you want more, and there is another one by him and then one written by his brother.
Joseph C. (
1 member(s) found this review helpful.
This is one of those books that you will either like or be sickened by. It's about a kid who was severely abused as a child. Unfortunately, it doesn't answer any of the questions I had reading through the book. What happened to the parents in the end and such. Apparently the other 2 books in this trilogy answer these questions. I however, will not be reading them. It droned on about the abuse without any real "story" to it. I was disappointed in that it just recites one incident after another. While this may have been cathartic for the author (who is also the Child in the book), it left me feeling sick having to read all the details. I understand child abuse happens, but it's not the light bedtime reading I was expecting from the book.
Tiffany K. (
1 member(s) found this review helpful.
This is a book that's very hard to rate and review. It depicts horrible abuse of a young boy at the hands of his mother, and reveals the dynamics of child abuse from within the family, which is seldom shown so honestly. An inspirational book that will break your heart. It's well worth reading.
1 member(s) found this review helpful.
This book is the most sadest book that I have ever read. I do not no how any mother could do this to her own child but there's nut job's out there in the world. The thing is that this child doesn't grow up to be a bad guy he takes his experiance and helps other that are in the same place he wants was. Yoou read this you better be ready to read the other TWO BOOKS too...
1 member(s) found this review helpful.
I am working towards becoming a social worker. In part because of my love for children, but in part because of Dave Pelzers tragic story. I picked up this book and intended to read it while my kids played at the park one summer. I read a few pages on our way home and could not put it down. I then went back the next day and got the next two books in this series. I cried just about the whole time that I read this book. It is a very touching book that is also motivating.
Lesley P. (
1 member(s) found this review helpful.
A Child Called It by Dave Pelzer is a fantastic book that is deeply touching, revealing, one of the saddest stories you'll ever read, yet also one of the most inspiring. This story written by the man that was once the child called "It", is the deeply moving story of a boy who is being abused by his alcoholic mother. With no where to turn and no way to explain to anyone what is happening to him due to his intense fear of his tormentor, the boy called "It" is forced into one horrible situation after another, both physically and emotionally. This is such an intense story you'll find yourself crying for the young child, relating to him, and cheering him on despite it all. The story of a courageous, strong individual, this book will keep you turning the pages late into the night. Not only that, but it will have you wanting to read the sequels to it as well.
Review by Lesley P. aka MagickAbounds on PBS, Reno, NV. Chapter Leader, 03-09-09
1 member(s) found this review helpful.
This is without a doubt the saddest book I have ever read. I read it in college while I was attending the teacher education program. Our professors suggested that we read it so that we might understand what some of our children may go through. It left an indelible impression on me for sure. It is not light reading and I would not let a child read this story. But, it is an amazing story of how one child survived unspeakable hardships and horrors.
1 member(s) found this review helpful.
What an awesome story about a courageous kid who fought for his life from abuse.It brought me to tears and made my mouth drop when i read the horrific things his mother did.The other books in the series(The Lost Boy and A man named Dave)Showed the continuous courage of this person.I have all 3 if anyone wants them.
Maekala W. (
1 member(s) found this review helpful.
I had to read this book for a class on Child Abuse and, like the entire class, I was appalled at Dave suffered.
I hope that people read this book and understand that abuse happens. Never turn a blind eye to what may be happening right next door.
1 member(s) found this review helpful.
My mother gave me this to read (along with the other two), saying it was a "must-read for anyone who works with children." As someone who taught school for 38 years, including during the time that Pelzer was in the school system, it was interesting to hear her perspective on being a teacher in the 1970's, where you were encouraged to mind your own business rather than speak up about suspected abuse on one of your students. As a result, it took years before Pelzer was rescued from his home. It makes you wonder if the process would have been a lot faster today (one hopes!)
The book makes you so angry at his mother for the horrific abuse, but even angrier at the people who stood by and allowed it to occur - certainly his father, but to a lesser extent his teachers and brothers. Even if you don't work with children, it is a wonderful story of the triumph of the human spirit. I'll be reading both follow-ups.
1 member(s) found this review helpful.
A fascinating read that is all the more compelling because it is true.
Jennifer P. (
1 member(s) found this review helpful.
I had to read this book for a class, but I did enjoy it. The book is written nicely and everything, it is just that the book is very sad and can be disturbing to some. I wouldn't recommend it to the light-hearted person. But otherwise the book is good.
April K. (
Gen F. (
1 member(s) found this review helpful.
Great book. The ending just kind of hit me though. But I read it from start to finish and did not once put it down. "Perspectives on child abuse" at the end was amazing. This book reallly hit home for me. And if you were never abused, you'll understand why some people in this world are so "off" because of it.
Cynthia (
1 member(s) found this review helpful.
I cried through very nearly the whole book. I could even feel my face pulling horrified expressions as I read.
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1 member(s) found this review helpful.
this was a very powerful book- i can imagine all the horrors he left out.
i am currently reading his other books.
i strongly recommend you read this book.
Michelle A. (
1 member(s) found this review helpful.
I didn't really care for this book. It was a terrible thing that happened of course, but the writing itself didn't draw me in and make me care about the child. I guess that sounds cold because its a true story, but even so, I read other books on abuse that were written much better.
1 member(s) found this review helpful.
Great insight to Dave's life and struggles, read it in 1 day and requested the sequel the next day
Robin D. (
1 member(s) found this review helpful.
One thing we all seem to agree on is that this true story evokes intense emotions due to the horrific child abuse Dave Pelzer suffered at the hand of his mother. I never read anything this tragic, and how morally disgusting and spiritually sinful that these things really happened!
I barely got through this book, I cried, I was angry, I had to phone a friend and rant about what I was reading, but in the end I was shown this beautiful man, who rose like a Phoenix from the flames and used his sad childhood as motivation to help others who are abused, instead of using it as a crutch to give up. He turned tragedy into triumph, and he found love and healing against the odds. It should be inspiration for us all to work on healing our past and to rise above our current problems, helping one another. It is not about what we went through per se, but what we learn and choose to do with it.
1 member(s) found this review helpful.
This is a must read for all.
1 member(s) found this review helpful.
This is a very sad but true story of a child's path into foster care. Overall, it was a great insight, but I question some of the 'memories' and how accurate they are. As well as some of the adult reactions to certain events. Was it really their reactions or the author's childish view on their reactions? Some of the memories and events I took with a grain of salt.
1 member(s) found this review helpful.
Engrossing account in the life of an abused child. Couldn't put the book down! Quick read.
1 member(s) found this review helpful.
An amazing book. I couldn't put it down even though I had a lump in my throat while reading it. It opened my eyes to how bad child abuse can be. I recommend this book to all parents.
Love F. (
1 member(s) found this review helpful.
What a tragic story. I don't know how anyone could do the things described in this book. As an adopted mother, its a wonder there is so many children in foster homes and adopting homes, with people like this out there. If you are a fostre or adopting parent you have to read this to find out what these children are dealing with..
1 member(s) found this review helpful.
Great Book! A truely amazing story of survival. Definitely a book that will stay on your mind for weeks after you have read it.
Michelle J. (
1 member(s) found this review helpful.
This book is heart breaking. I usually read horror books but this was so emotionally tragic that I also had to keep putting it down. (So I could stop the tears..) My husband doesn't read books at all, just magazines but after I started telling him about the story, he had to read it. I have also heard that there is a sequel to this book and that is about the court room happenings.
1 member(s) found this review helpful.
This is a truly sad sad story. Very much a tearjerker. I promise you will have tears in your eyes through out this book
Christina W. (
1 member(s) found this review helpful.
Very inspirational book. Very sad. I could not put the book down. Very well written
Stacey P. (
1 member(s) found this review helpful.
This book was haunting. I can't imagine ever treating a child this way or having to go through any of these things. This book will leave an imprint on your mind.
1 member(s) found this review helpful.
I really enjoyed this book. Dave pelzer goes through his abuse life with his mother. The only part I hated was how the father just sat back and let his wife treat their son with such abuse. Good reading!!!
LaVonne W. (
1 member(s) found this review helpful.
Compelling. How a child could survive such abuse is hard to understand, even harder to understand how a mother could treat her own child in such a manner.
1 member(s) found this review helpful.
This is such a moving book about a child that lives in horrific abuse. It is amazing how a child can survive such conditions. It also is a story of strength and courage.
1 member(s) found this review helpful.
Such terrible things for a mother to do to her child. I cried. It was awful. I give Dave so much credit for writing this book to give others inspiration. Great book even though it's sad.
1 member(s) found this review helpful.
i couldn't put it down! one of the most horrific stories i've ever read, but captivating and inspirational at the same time.
1 member(s) found this review helpful.
One feels one can survive anything after reading this book.
Ivy
1 member(s) found this review helpful.
This is one of the most extreme cases of child abuse I've ever read about. Heartbreaking and shocking, but the author (and victim) made lemonade out of lemons. You have to read it to believe it!
1 member(s) found this review helpful.
A truly heart-rending tale of a child's struggle to overcome adversity
1 member(s) found this review helpful.
This book is the unforgettable accounty of one of the most severe child abuse cases in California history. It is the story of Dave Pelzer, who was brutally beaten and starved by his mother. This book is a testament to human courage and the indominable will to survive.
1 member(s) found this review helpful.
An amazing story of a boy's will to overcome abuse and not only survive but thrive. Read the entire series to find out how he grows to become a man and stop the cycle of abuse.
1 member(s) found this review helpful.
A heartwrenching true tale of the abuse Pelzer endured as a child. Very eye opening.
Wendy R. (
1 member(s) found this review helpful.
A chilling book, difficult to believe that any "mother"
1 member(s) found this review helpful.
A heart-wrenching first-person account of some of the worst documented child abuse in the State of California. Very distressing to see the depth of one mother's depravity.
1 member(s) found this review helpful.
My heart went out to him. A page turner that is impossible to put down. I just had to keep reading to see how he was going to get through eveything.
Candy B. (
1 member(s) found this review helpful.
This book has left a heavy knot in the pit of my stomach. I cannot fathom the things that this "mother" did to this child. The subtitle of this book says "An Inspirational Story" - I guess that's true because Dave really did survive by his own mentality. But it didn't leave me feeling very inspired, just very sad for him, angry at his mother and murderous towards his Father. HOW could this man just leave when he knew what was going on? How? It sounds as though the author is a well adjusted adult now, I cannot imagine going through what he did. I.Just.Can't.
1 member(s) found this review helpful.
Heartbreaking.
It's hard to say that this is a good book because of what it is about.
Let's call it a page turner, I read it in two hours.
Liese S. (
1 member(s) found this review helpful.
Apparently, this book is all a bunch of malarkey--the NYT did an article trying to corroborate ANY of the details of this book...couldn't be done. And apparently Pelzer buys huge batches of his own book to boost himself onto the Bestseller list and then sells the books at his speeches.
Wow, I sound pretty spiteful, don't I? But it bothers me when there is so much real abuse in the world and this guy is making a buck off a bunch of lies. If he had classified it as fiction--well, then it would just be a very poorly written book.
/end rant
1 member(s) found this review helpful.
This was one of the most disturbing books I've read about child abuse. I can think of only two books that upset me more, Sybil and When Rabbit Howls. After all the awful things this poor boy went through, it's a miracle that he is not seriously disturbed. Well...maybe he is and we just don't know it! This book is the first in a series of three. As I was reading it I kept wondering, what kind of mother does this to her own child? Obviously the mother had to be seriously disturbed herself. Pelzer describes a loving mom early in his life. She seemed to be affected by alcoholism and possibly some kind of mood disorder. She had two more babies while she was doing all this drinking and I wondered if they were damaged in any way from fetal alcohol syndrome. What shocked me as much as the mother's abuse was the father's inability or unwillingness to help his son. I practically cheered when the boy was finally "rescued" and placed into the foster care system...how ironic is that? I had so many questions that possibly will be answered if and when I can bring myself to read the next in the series. It's a very difficult book to read but a very valuable one.
Roxanne P. (It was a good book, but I didn't realize it was part of a trilogy. Now I have to wait to get the other 2 books.
this was a very sad and astonishingly vivid account of child abuse! dave pelzer is very much admired for having the strength and courage to write of his life. everyone should read!!
This book really made me think of a young boy that was in a similar situation in ohio. This boy was mentally handicapped and the parents left him in a closet to die while they went to a reunion. I cannot imagine any child having to go through that.
This is a very good book. It will make you mad, and make you sad, but it's still a story of hope. It's amazing!
A very good book. It was hard to put down. You really feel so sorry for David and everything that he went through.
I couldn't put this book down, i wish ihad his mothers neck in my hands. am waiting for the next book to hopefully find out shes behind bars. I am glad to know he grew up to be a great guy. God Bless you Dave Pelzer:)
This book was nothing like I expected. I knew it was going to be a difficult book to read but I didn't expect it to be so short. I didn't like the way it ended, then I realized it's the first book in a series so I guess I'll have to read the next book. This book opened up lots of questions for me. I don't understand why Mother was so bad to David but she treated the other 4 boys so well. It really makes you wonder why people abuse their children. I will warn anyone one who is thinking about reading this book, it does get a little hard to handle once in a while.
A very sad story about the physical and emotional abuse one little boy had to suffer at the hands of his unfeeling mother. It is very hard to believe that a mother could subject a child to this kind of torment.
Stacey C. (A really good book. Makes you realize that your life can always be worst.
The only reason I didn't like the book was how the Mother went from Brady Bunch Mom to "The Bitch". I didn't understand how she could've done such an extreme 360 of her personaity. Maybe she had some kind of mental disorder.
Anyway, its a great read. A little short, but makes you think.
The true story of a child who was abuse to depths noone should ever come to terms with. the story is compelling and painful and a way that won't let you stop until you have read what has happened to David Pelzer
This man's story had my mouth anchored to the floor the entire time I read his book! What he went through as a child was so horrible, and yet so amazing what he does to live to tell his tale... I will never forget the name Dave Pelzer for as long as I live! Never have I read a book like this; seeing abuse through the eyes of this child ... reading what went through his mind ... and trying to force yourself the entire time to somehow understand or make sense of the un-beliviable events that really happened ... it just moved me. It's hard to put into words how this book made me feel, because there is nothing I can say that would accuratly describe it's value; it's something you must read and experence it for yourself. I think everyone should read this book...EVERYONE!! We could learn so much from this man's story ....
CHERYL M. (This book is hard to read. It's tough to imagine that a mother could be so cruel. Many people looked the other way while this child was being abused. It's a miracle he lived. Well worth the read if you can stomach it.
My stomach hurt to think of the things he had to go thru. Very sad. I liked the book although it was hard for me to get thru. This book brought me to tears.
This book is so well written. You feel as though it really is coming from a child's perspective as he recounts the horrors of his life to you. I must say though it is a grapchic novel. I found it hard to relate to it because it's tough to imagine that a mother would do that to her child!
as long as you can stomach everything he went through this is an awesome book and is an awesome read.. it will make you cry but i think everyone should read it and learn what a lot of foster kids go through. its a hard world out there and im glad that he(dave) is doing so well now as an adult. :)
Cindy R. (This is a VERY QUICK read. I only have time to read a little bit each night before I go to bed and I read this in two nights.
Unbelieveable what happens to Dave Pelzer. It is hard to understand why people abuse their children. What he endured goes beyond anything that I could have imagined.
I think that child abuse happens way more often than we think or know. I'm left wondering how in the world can you stop it? How can you really protect children? How can you change it so that abusers stop? How can the cycle be ended? Can we do more than each of us be aware and get our of our comfort box when we can?
This was a very sad book about the truth of the dangers that are children are enduring today at the hands of people that should be there heros. Instead they are being abused and learning the insecurities of the mean society they are about to be unleasehed into. The book was a tear tearjerker that even inspired my daughter (12yrs old) to want read it. From the sick facts, the truth in this book it made you go back to get the rest of the series.
As you read this book you will be mortified at the abuse this child suffers. You'll find yourself scared along with him but determined not to give up. A story about one of the most horrific stories of child abuse that's been documented. It will make you hug your children and thank God that they are among the blessed.
Shanna V. (Took me only two hours to read this horribly true story.
If you like to cry while reading this is a book for you. It's so horrible what this child survives. I couldn't put the book down.
Michelle S. (The abuse couldnt be much more horrifying, or the outcome much more heroic. Yeah for Dave! This is such an encouraging book. If he can overcome this...
This book will break your heart, it's not for those with a weak stomach. The horrible truths of what this child went through are intense. Very eye opening.
Christy L. (Never have I imagined such horrors of child abuse than this story tells about - it's beyond words what one human being did to another. It boggles my mind that this child survived at the hands of his mother and has gone on to become a motivational speaker - God sure took care of him, what an amazing person Dave Pelzer is. Very disturbing and sad book, but well written.
Brenna B. (A very sad, but compelling, book about Dave Pelzer's struggle as a severely abused child in the 1970s. I read it in two nights and wanted to scream at so many of the peripheral characters for not stepping in and doing something sooner (especially his dad who didn't do anything about what Dave's mother was doing to him).
Charlene P. (Interesting autobography. Written in the child's voice/thoughts. Critics call it inspirational . . . I found I was wondering what was wrong with the mother, father, and school officials. Not a happy story in itself. Uplifting in that this child survives and becomes the man that he is.
I could not stop reading this although it was disturbing. I couldn't imagine that all that he went through could possibly be true.
you WILL cry. this is a true story and it outlines the horror of what is and always has been child abuse. The devil takes human form in Dave's mother and the sweet innocent boy will capture your heart.
Kimberly I. (A Child Called "It" is the unforgettable account of one of the most severe child abuse cases in California history. It is the story of Dave Pelzer, who was brutally beaten and starved by his emotionally unstable, alcoholic mother: a mother who played torturous, unpredictable games--- games that left him nearly dead. He had to learn how to play his mother's games in order to survive because she no longer considered him a son, but a slave: and no longer a boy, but an "it."
Dave's bed was an old army cot in the basement, and his clothes were torn and raunchy. When his mother allowed him the luxury of food, it was nothing more than spoiled scraps that even the dogs refused to eat. The outside world knew nothing of his living nightmare. He had nothing and no one to turn to, but his dreams kept him alive--- dreams of someone taking care of him, loving him and calling him their son.
Through each struggle you'll find yourself enduring his pain, comforting his loneliness and fighting for his will to survive. This compelling story will awaken you to the truth about child abuse--- and the ability we all have to make a difference.
An auto-biography of a man learning to come to terms with his childhood of abuse. The book if very well written and while it is not morbid or sensational, it is sad and fairly detailed. Excellent read, as are the sequels.
An amazing novel. I read it in 2 hours .. I couldn't put it down.
Teresa S. (This book was awesome.....I could not believe that a human being could treat her child the way this mad woman treated her son. I could not put this one down!!!
This is the most awesome and heart breaking story. I couldn't stop reading once I've started.
Such a sad story, but thankfully, Dave is now grown up and touring around the country speaking and sharing his story to help others. A quick read if you can handle getting through the rough parts of his description of abuse from his mother.
Facinating, sad, frightening, almost unbelievable. Why, why,why? How and why could parents single out one child for this kind of treatment? Fortunately, there are 2 sequels, and David overcomes his early childhood.
Absolutely wonderful book. I have read it so many times, I couldn't count them all. It WILL make you cry, but it's worth it.
Red this book once, captivating story, but probably not something I want to read over and over. It is practically new.
Though disturbing, I'm glad I read it. A story of pure hope and courage.
A. D. (I read this once before... I just can't put my self through with it again.. it is such a bittersweet story.
Wonderful insight on one child's abuse case. This book is so touching! It makes you angry, sad, and brave. I loved this book!
A heartbreaking story of one of the worst child abuse cased listed in the state of California.
I just received this book the other day -- it took me less than 24 hours to read. The book is written like a memoir, so it makes for an odd reading experience... the story is a sad one... it is completely appauling that someone can treat their child like this... but inspirational that the child survived and never gave up hope.
A gripping true account of child abuse and the incredible will to survive.
This is a tough story to read at times but it's well worth it to learn the outcome. I'm looking forward to reading the additional books that this man has written!
A horrifying story of child abuse. An amazing story of one child's will to survive.
Very interesting, well written, fast read .... it was written to make the reader think but not to make the reader "sick"......I am very impressed with Dave Pelzer.
This is the unforgettable account of one of the most severe child abuse cases in California history. It is the story of Dave Pelzer, who was brutally beaten and starved by his emotionally unstable, alcoholic mother. Dave overcame all of the torture. He was honored as one of he Ten Outstanding Young Americans and as one of the Outstanding Young Persons of the World in 1993 and 1994, respectively.
This book though incredibly sad, is well written. It will open your eyes to child abuse.
Very fast but disturbing read of what one family can do to a young child. Encouraging as well as the child managed to survive his awful upbringing. One of 3 books about Dave Pelzers life.
A must read for everyone. And then get his other books.
Jennifer M. (a real atory, although i wished it wasn't true, of a boyhood filled with abuse. and survival!
Outstanding! I is hard to believe that a parent would treat their child like this. Am anxious to read the next book in the series
Christa B. (A Child Called It is an unforgettable account of one of the most severe abuse cases in California history. It is the story of Dave Peltzer, who was brutally beaten and starved by his emotionally unstable, alcoholic mother:a mother who played torturous, unpredictable games-games that left her nearly dead. He had to learn to play his mothers games in order to survive because she no longer considered him her son, but a slave;and no longer a boy but an "it." Dave's bed was an old army cot in the basement, and his clothes were torn and raunchy. When his mother allowed him the luxury of food, it was nothing more than spoiled scraps that even the dogs refused to eat. The outside world knew nothing of his living nightmare. He had nothing and noone to turn to, but his dreams kept him alive-dreams of someone taking care of him, loving him and calling him their son. Through each struggle, you'll find yourself enduring his pai, comforting his lonliness and fighting for his will to survive. This compelling story will awaken you to the truth about child abuse-and the ability we all have to make a difference.
hard to read b/c of the subject matter, but very worth reading
Excellent book! This book is the reason that i became a foster parent!
An amazing story of a little boy's strength and courage, even when his life is in danger.
Tragic child abuse from a child'd perspective. I have met th eauthor and he is a testiment to a child's resilience.
It is a horrifying description of a young boy's torment. A bit simplistic in writing, it will touch you nevertheless.
A moving true story about a child growing up suffering severe abuse.
I really enjoyed this book. It definately made you feel like you understood the you boy in the book. It's a good read and I highly recommend it
The first in the trilogy of the true life battles of Dave Pelzer. A difficult book to read, but hard to put down.
This book was very sad! It's a heartbreaking story, but a very good read
Celeste B. (It's a shock to believe that someone would treat the own child, like this mother did. It's also amazing that he survived and did not become bitter because of the abuse.
An amazing story of one boy's courage to survive the horrors of his childhood.
Compelling story, was shocking what was done to him and how strong a person he was to get through this ordeal.
This book was really good, i can't wait to read his other books in the series.
Such a sad but all too true story. Has me wanting to read the 2nd one in the triology.
Sheree R.
Great book, i couldn't put it down. My daughter and i both read it. Very touching and true.
Pamela S. (
PAM L. (Very heart-wrenching story of how one child survived horrific child abuse, and went on to become a wonderfully productive member of society.
I read this book on one day, half on the treadmill at the gym and half at home that evening. It is a quick and easy read. The writing style didn't strike me as particularly interesting but simply raw and real. I've been told that it is a must read for child care workers and it was pretty much exactly what I had expected.
It is crazy to think that one child endured all of the things that Dave Pelzer did. The book was pretty well written, but it leaves a lot of loose ends.
heartbreaking novel of child abuse and a strong boy who survived it. VERY MOVING!!
Donna C. (This is a very sad story but one worth taking note of. I had this book sitting around my house for years refusing to read it because I didn't want to be burdened with the details of another person's sad life. My own are bad enough. I finally read it and it broke my heart and made me pull my boys close to me and tell them both how much I love them each and every day. Every child deserves love and affection from someone, especially their mother. I could just see his sad eyes right through the ink on these pages. This book doesn't keep you down too long though. It is a fast read and leaves you with a story of a man who lived through this nightmare to be a stronger human being with an amazing will to survive. He chose to use his past as a stepping stone to a higher plane. He's not an "it" but a real american "super hero".
This book was a very good read, I loved it, It really makes you think about child abuse and how many kids could be going through it today
Of everything I've read, this book will be the most memorable. My sister recommended it, I didn't think much of it, but I picked it up and read from start to finish one afternoon. I soon purchased - and read just as quickly - the rest of the trilogy.
From the back cover:
A Child Called "It" is teh unforgettable account of one of the most severe child abuse cases in California history. It is the story of Dave Pelzer, who was brutally beaten and starved by his emotionally unstable, alcoholic mother: a mother who played torturous, unpredictable games -- games that left him nearly dead. He had to learn how to play his mother's games in order to survive because she no longer considered him a son, but a slave; and no longer a boy, but an "it".
A very fast read. It seems surreal enough that it's almost unbelievable, but these things DO happen.
I read the whole thing the day I received it!! Very moving - makes you hug your kids a little tighter.
This is a book about a horribly abused boy.. he survived treatment that most people couldn't.. very good book.. this is the first in a series of at least 3 books.
It is the story of a most disturbing case of child abuse. One of the most serious abuse cases in California history.
A child surviving horrendous abuse by his mother, then the system. Inspirational.
A Child Called It"is the unforgettable account of one of the most severe child abuse cases in California history. This compelling story will awaken you to the truth about child abuse-an the ability we all have to make a difference.
Lisa P. (This is a very intense book and a quick read because you can't put it down. The only way I could bare to read about the severe abuse was to know in advance that Dave Pelzer did survive and thrive despite these harsh years in his life.
In this amazing TRUE story of survival and hope in the worst possible conditions, Pelzer paints a detailed image of an unthinkable case of child abuse. Without being preachy, this book is inspiring, and I can't wait to read the two sequels.
Very sad story about one of the worst cases of child abuse in the history of california. It will bring you to tears, you will feel the pain.
Very good book; I kept reading just to see how a young child could survive!
what an amazing story of survival! i could not put it down and was brought to tears several times!
From the back cover:
A Child Called "It" is the unforgettable account of one of the most severe child abuse cases in California history. It is the story of Dave Pelzer, who was burtally beaten and starved by his emotionally unstable, alcoholic mother: a mother who played torurous, unpredictable games--games taht left him nearly dead. He had to learn how to play his mother's games in order to survive because she no longer considered him a son, but a slave; and no longer a boy, but and "it".
My notes: When reading this book, please keep in mind that Dave was not the only child in this family...there are two brothers. When you're living in hell, you do anything you can to survive. And maybe that's why his brothers, nor his father came to his rescue. This is a gut wrenching book from which we can all learn. It's made me look differently at children who seem obnoxious, hateful, spiteful,and just plain mean. You can bet something bad is going on at home for a child to act out like that.
A totally difficult and hard book to read about what things were done to a little child and what he did to live. A true story and wonderful.
Mary
I just saw this on one of the lists. I loved it but I will never read it again
I could not put this book down. Very well written, and not for the squimish.
This book saddened my heart, but it is a great testimony to the will to survive.
Your heart will be torn as you read this true life story of one child's dramatic struggle to survive severe abuse. Dave Pelzer tells this heart-wrenching story of his early childhood. This book is not for everyone. It could be too difficult for some to read.
This book is so well written, an I read it in one day. I couldn't put it down, it will make you want to nourish your own children and thank God every day for your childrens presence. I couldn't stop hugging my grandson and couldnt help but to just watch him in his peaceful slumber. This book is a must read! I have already ordered the sequel. I just want to know what happened to the rest of the family. And I can only hope that David's mother got her just rewards for her horrible part in the torture of an innocent child. Nobody is an IT!
Couldn't put the book down, yet was disgusted that someone could be treated this way.
This true account of a boy's abusive childhood will make you cry.
Your heart will go out to the child as he goes through this agonizing journey.
I read this book in a few short hours waiting to go on an appointment. It was incredibly eye-opening and inspirational. No one should ever have to go through what Dave went through, and I'm glad he wrote this book as a reminder to society that it never should!
What most amazes me is that his spirit and energy are seemingly unaffected by the horrors of his past. He is a role model to all of mankind (even though I'm womankind LOL).
Being a child who survived physical abuse myself from a step-father,I was able to relate with the abuse that the author endured. His abuse was more severe than mine but it helped me realize that I had to be strong for my own children and break the chain so to speak. Every mother and father should read this book to recognize "symptoms" of abuse so they can recognize when a child is in danger....
A true story of terrible child abuse and the authors escape from it.
Loretta F. (
Dian and Beth W. (first book of 3 part series...a must read. If you ever get a chance to see this author...would highly recommend listening to his life when he gives a speech.
I started reading this book the day that I recieved it. I didn't put it down until I was through, 2 hours later. Very painful to read, but touching and hopeful at the same time. Would recommend everyone to read this book.
I started reading this boon the day that I recieved it. I didn't put it down until I was through, 2 hours later. Very painful to read, but touching and hopeful at the same time. Would recommend everyone to read this book.
This is an awesome, very emotional and heart felt book. I love reading it and read it more then once.
touching and heartbreaking.......opens your eyes to the bigger picture....
This book was a real eye opener on child abuse. Excellant Book!
A Child Called "It" is the unforgettable account of one of the most severe child abuse cases in California history. It is the story of Dave Pelzer, who was brutally beaten and starved by his emotionally unstable, alcoholic mother: a mother who played torturous, unpredictable games--games that left him nearly dead. He had to learn how to play his mother's games in order to survive because she no longer considered him a son, but a slave; and no longer a boy, but an "it."
Dave's bed was an old army cot in the basement, and his clothes were torn and raunchy. When his mother allowed him the luxury of food, it was nothing more than spoiled scraps that even the dogs refused to eat. The outside world knew nothing of his living nightmare. He had nothing and no one to turn to, but his dreams kept him alive--dreams of someone taking care of him, loving him and calling him their son.
Through each struggle you'll find yourself enduring his pain, comforting his loneliness and fighting for his will to survive. This compelling story will awaken you to the truth about child abuse--and the ability we all have to make a difference.
While the subject matter of this book was very difficult, I couldn't put it down. Having grown up and attended the same schools he did, I felt a connection to him. (My friend lived two houses away from the house he lived in.)
Excellent book.
Taleah G. (A stunning picture of courage and survival. An inspiring story!
an account of one of the most severe child abuse cases in california. He was beatenand starved by his mentally ill, alcoholic mother who played tortuous games with him. he had to learn how to play those games in order to survive. Not for the weak hearted. Very sad and painful read IMHO.
This book was great, I enjoyed every minute of it. Quite a compelling story.
such a moving story about a little boys survival of child abuse...
Something every teacher should read. I hated the mother in this book.....and I can't believe that anyone could survive this. Great read, couldn't put it down!
this book is undescribable. i cried front to back, it only took me two hours to read. The life this child leads make even me grateful for my own childhood. to be alive. the only comfort this book gives is to be able to look at the back and see what a wonderful man this david has become, that he survived, and that he has stopped at least one cycle of abuse in this world. David Peltzer is a man i would like to meet and thank for this book.
A truly sad book. Not much else to say other than it touched me deeply
It was so heartwrenching to think that a child had to go through that kind of abuse. I couldn't put it down. And it was so inspiring to know that despite all the abuse, he turned out to be a remarkable person!
I couldn't put this book down. I just cannot believe someone could even think up the things that were done to this child.
Sue E. (An extremly touching book that was hard to put dowm. It is hard to believe there is that kind of abuse in this country. I originally read the book at my daughter's suggestion-then went on to read the next two books.
This has been my son's favorite book for a long time since a teacher read it to him in 4th grade. He had his dad special order it for him. Whoever gets this book he is sure will love it!
You cannot put it down! Heartwrenching story of survival and hope.
Colleen H. (An unbelievable, but true, story of one abused child's will to live. Read all three stories and follow Dave as he grows to become a husband and father.
Dave Pelzer is a very couragous person. He told a very inspirational story that had me angry, sad, and happy throughout the book.
Book was VERY hard to read. I almost wish I hadn't read it.
An unbelieveable story about how cruel humans can be.
This book could not be put down. It is amazing what this young boy lived through. He now travels the U.S. as an inspirational speaker.
This book I read in one day. I really didnt want to put it down. Very emotional book.
Vicki M. (A very touching story....about a very strong boy who overcame abuse and lived to tell his story. A must read............
Heartbreaking, almost unbelievable account of what some people are capable of. True story of horrible child abuse by a victim.
Anna G. - This is a heart-wretching story of the abuse one little boy must endure. His story will touch our heart.
Very moving, a must read...if you have the stomach for it.
Tara L. (This was a great read. I couldn't put it down. I can't wait to get the next one in the series.
This series of books is an eye opener!!! A must read series!!!
What this child goes through & endures is unbelievable, what courage!!!
This is a heart wrenching story that shows through it all you can never lose hope!
This book was very sad but informing and entertaining. Recomended read for everyone.
I thought this was a great book! It really kept my intrest and I did not want to put it down!
A very Gripping novel, a true story about a boys courage to live. An excellant and emotional read.
Hard-to-out-down and yet so very, very, disturbing.
This is a story of one little boy's survival and triumph over his abusive mother and his passive father.
An unforgettable acount of one of the most severe child abuse cases in California history. It is the story of Dave Pelzer, who was brutally beaten and starved by his emotionally unstable, alcoholic mother: a mother who played tortuous, unpredictable games--games that left him nearly dead. He had to learn how to play his mother's games in order to survive because she no longer considered him a son, but a slave; and no longer a boy, but an "it."
Dave's bed was an old army cot in the basement, and his clothes were torn and raunchy. When his mother allowed him the luxury of food, it was nothing more than spoiled scraps that even the dogs refused to eat. The outside world knew nothing of his living nightmare. He had nothing or no one to turn to, but his dreams kept him alive--dreams of someone taking care of him, loving him and calling him their son.
Through each struggle you'll find yourself enduring his pain, comforting his loneliness and fighting for his will to survive. This compelling story will awaken you to the truth about child abuse and the ability we all have to make a difference.
I couldn't put this book down. It really got to me that a mother can treat a kid like that.
What a powerful and sad story. You will think you are reading a fictious tale, but it is a very true story!!
This is a riveting book about a boy who endured one of the worse cases of child abuse ever in the state of California. I couldn't put it down. This story will awaken you to the truth about child abuse, and the ability we all have to make a difference.
Stacy J. (I read it in about an hour. It was quite possibly one of the most horrible stories of abuse I have ever heard. It made me want to go pick my boys up from school and hug and kiss them for the rest of the day.
A great story of one childs struggle to overcome the abuse and longterm effects of his diffucult childhood. Some parts are very gruesome.
This was a remarkable story. WHen you read the follow-up books to this all you can think is how amazing that someone can come throught what Dave Pelzer Did.
Tragic story - frightening that a child had to endure this.
This is a moving, startling memoir of a child's survival through years of torment at the hands of his mother.
This book will bring you to tears its a true story of a drunk mom mistreating her first born son.
Incredibly sad but true story of a case of child abuse. Dave Pelzer is now an outstanding adult who has done great things with his life.
This is a must read!! The thought that this child survived is a miracle.
A very sad true book about the terrible abuse of a small child. Excellent book but very sad.
I cried the entire time I was reading this. Finished in one night and went out to buy his second book the next day. Heart-wrenching!
This is a harrowing tale of a young boy who survived the third worst case of child abuse every recorded by the California authorities. The book is intense. It is supposed to carry a message of hope but can be difficulty to read at times because of the extent of the abuse and the psychological detachment this mother displays towards her son.
Sherri S. (This is a book that is too sad for me to get through, but it is well liked and rates high by everyone that reads it. Just be prepared to cry!
Tough to take-a graphic recounting of horrific child abuse written by the survivor. What he overcame is amazing.
EXCELLENT! I WAS STUNNED BY THE ABUSE THAT A CHILD CAN GO THROUGH IN THIS COUNTRY AND NO ONE STEP IN. EXCELLENT JOB BY THE AUTHOR CONVEYING THE FEAR OF TELLING THAT AN ABUSED CHILD FEELS.
This book is the unforgettable account of one of the most severe child abuse cases in California history, told first-hand by the man who somehow survived on his dreams-- dreams of someone taking care of him, loving him, and calling him their son. True to the back cover of the book, through each heart-breaking struggle I found myself enduring his pain, comforting his loneliness, and fighting for his will to survive. This compelling story will awaken you to the truth about child abuse-- and the ability we all have to make a difference.
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