Fifth Chinese Daughter Author:Jade Snow Wong Mama spoke solemnly: "Fifth Daughter, if you start going out with foreign boys, no Chinese man will ever ask you to be his wife." — "Oh, Mama!" Jade Snow cried, "This is America, not China. Don't you think I have any judgment? You expect me to work my way through college - which would not have been possible in China. You expect me to exercise... more » judgment in choosing my employers and my jobs, and in spending my own money in the American world. You must give me the freedom to find some answers for myself."« less