The Five Love Languages Author:Gary Chapman Are you and your spouse speaking the same language? People express and receive love in different ways. Dr. Gary chapman identifies thes as the five languages of love: Quality Time, Words of Affirmation, Gifts, Acts of Service, and Physical Touch. If you express love in a way your spouse doesn't understand, he or she won't realize you've expr... more »essed your love at all. The problem is that you're speaking two different languages...« less