Kim grew up near Boston, Massachusetts and graduated from Syracuse University. She worked as a small-town reporter in northern California.

In 1989, she attended Officer Training School and was commissioned into the United States Air Force as a second lieutenant. In 1991, she became qualified as an air weapons controller on the E-3 AWACS and went to Saudi Arabia with Desert Storm, becoming one of the first American women to fly in a combat zone. She spent the next five years flying missions out of Saudi Arabia and Turkey, providing air supplies to the Kurds in northern Iraq and monitoring the Iraqi no-fly zone. These experiences formed the basis of her first novel, The Art of Uncontrolled Flight.

In 1996, she took a one-year assignment at Osan, South Korea, controlling the airspace south of the Korean Demilitarized Zone. There, she met her husband, Bill, also an Air Force officer. They moved to Geilenkirchen, Germany, where he flew with the NATO E-3s, while Kim joined the Air Force Reserve and began working on her novel. She attended workshops in Prague, Czech Republic,and St. Petersburg, Russia, and later attended the Warren Wilson Program for Writers.

Now a Lieutenant Colonel, Kim is the lead speechwriter for Lieutenant General John Bradley, Chief of the Air Force Reserve. She holds an M.S. in international relations and an M.F.A. from the Warren Wilson Program for Writers. She’s written about the current Iraq war on blogsites such as Femme La Guerre and BlogHer, a women’s news and features site. She teaches at a conference run by A Room of Her Own, the largest women-only writer’s foundation in the country. Kim also has reviewed books for the Washington Post.

She lives in southern New Hampshire with her husband and two boys.