The InLaw Survival Guide Author:Gloria Call Horsley Written by an experienced family therapist, this book shows readers how to build a healthy in-law relationship from the beginning. Stepping readers through the life-cycle changes in the in-law relationship, the manual examines the common sources of conflict, such as power and loyalty issues, disputes over money, generation gaps, and communicatio... more »n difficulties.
Most people do not stop to think that when they've taken their wedding vows, they're also taking on a troop of people along with their spouse. Horsley (In-Laws: A Guide to Extended Family Therapy, Wiley, 1995), a family therapist with over 15 years' experience, has written a much-needed guide to help you get along with that troop. She uses lots of anecdotes from her practice to point out common in-law problems. Her basic technique is to emphasize how readers can change their outlook and attitude about the situation rather than attempting to change the in-law. She suggests that by "building good in-law relationships...you can add depth and breadth to your life that you may not otherwise have." The guide also includes several exercises to help improve in-law relationships and quizzes to help readers assess their own in-law situation.« less