Hi Teresa. Congrats for your success, my friend. My name is Daphne and I also cared for my father who had Alz. who is deceased now. My father's story was a complicated one, but he left my home for a young woman he had been married to previously and found himself dropped in a nursing home. His story went downhill from there. The sorrow of his loss and being in the nursing home and my not being able to help him has been overwhelming at times. I too was an "unconventional student". I started back to school after working several years for the Texas Dept. of Mental Health and Mental Retardation. I was working full time and going to school part time when my dad was admitted to the nursing home. I finally quit my job and continued to go to school full time. I quit my job in June and started to school full time in the fall. In Nov. of that year, my husband had a massive heart attack (flat-lined for 15min.) and survived! Two years later, my father passed away in 2004. The next spring I graduated (same day as my youngest son) with a bachelor's degree in Social Work. I have been working for 3 years now at a nursing home caring for those with Alzheimer's, Dementia and an assortment of ailments and mental health problems. I'm "on call" and/or PRN for a Home Health agency and the local Hospital's Senior Focus Group as a group facilitator. I love my job/jobs! About a year ago I became a volunteer for the Alz. Assn. and am a Support Group facilitator at the nursing home once a month. All of this collage of experience has taught me so much and I feel privilaged to be making a contribution to those who were in a similar situation as my own. May God bless you, as well, for your insights and caring.
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