When this book released, every blog I read was gushing about how good it was. I have to agree. It's well written with an original concept. Begin rant--I have to roll my eyes at the reviews posted here giving negative feedback because of the infidelity. Gosh people, read the synopsis before you buy a book--Rant over. This book took a difficult subject and gave us a new perspective with the added bonus of a little information about a different culture. As my Mom used to say, there are two sides to every story.