I like this way this book was written in a coversational way that made it seem like the author was visiting with you. She really made me think about sometimes loving someone means doing some things that will be hard for me and that there is no easy way out if you truly love.
She also brings to light 'tough love' which many would like to avoid. Having enough love to be proactive and deal with the negative in a loving but persistent way. She shows that love is listening, forgiving, caring, selfless but also proactive. A very inspirational book on real love.