Known as 'Monty' to her family and friends, she was born into an upper middle class London family to Henry Charles Dickens (1878—1966), a barrister, and Fanny Runge. She was the grand-daughter of Sir Henry Fielding Dickens KC, the eminent judge. Having become disillusioned with the world she was brought up in ... she was expelled from St Paul's Girls' School in London before she was presented at court as a debutante ... she decided to go into service despite coming from the privileged class; her experiences as a cook and general servant would form the nucleus of her first book, One Pair Of Hands in 1939. One Pair Of Feet (1942) recounted her work as a nurse, and subsequently she worked in an aircraft factory and on a local newspaper in Hitchin ... her experiences in the latter field of work inspired her 1951 book My Turn To Make The Tea.
Soon after this, she moved from her home in Hinxworth in Hertfordshire to the United States after marrying a United States Navy officer, Roy Stratton, and adopting two girls, Pamela and Prudence. She lived in Washington, D.C. and Falmouth, Massachusetts and continued to write, most of her books being set in Britain. She was also a regular columnist for the British women's magazine Woman's Own for twenty years.
Monica Dickens had strong humanitarian interests which were manifested in her work with the National Society for the Prevention of Cruelty to Children (reflected in her 1953 book No More Meadows and her 1964 work Kate and Emma), the Royal Society for the Prevention of Cruelty to Animals (coming to the fore in her 1963 book Cobbler's Dream), and the Samaritans, the subject of her 1970 novel The Listeners ... she helped to found the first American branch of the Samaritans in Massachusetts in 1974. From 1970 onwards she wrote a number of children's books; the Follyfoot series of books followed on from her earlier adult novel Cobbler's Dream, and were the basis of a children's TV series, also called Follyfoot, produced by Yorkshire Television for the UK's ITV network between 1971 and 1973 (and popular around the world for many years thereafter).
In 1978 Monica Dickens published her autobiography, An Open Book. In 1985 she returned to the UK after the death of her husband, and continued to write until her death on Christmas Day 1992, her final book being published posthumously. She was also an occasional broadcaster for most of her writing career.
In late 1964 Dickens was visiting Australia to promote her works. It was reported in the Sydney Morning Herald on 30 November 1964 that during a book signing session in Sydney she had been approached by a woman who handed her a copy of her book and said Emma Chisit? and misapprehended the query regarding the cost of the inscription — How much is it? — as an instruction as to the name which she should include in the inscription. Thus was born the phenomenon of "Strine" which filled the newspaper's letter columns and subsequently was the subject of a separate weekly article and, later, a series of humorous books.