Book Reviews of The Relationship Cure : A 5 Step Guide to Strengthening Your Marriage, Family, and Friendships

The Relationship Cure : A 5 Step Guide to Strengthening Your Marriage, Family, and Friendships
The Relationship Cure A 5 Step Guide to Strengthening Your Marriage Family and Friendships
Author: John M. Gottman, Joan DeClaire
ISBN-13: 9780609809532
ISBN-10: 0609809539
Publication Date: 6/25/2002
Pages: 336
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Publisher: Three Rivers Press
Book Type: Paperback
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This is an amazing and incredibly well-researched book. Quite revolutionary, in fact!

From the publisher: Leading relationship expert and bestselling author Dr. John Gottman, who has won numerous awards for his groundbreaking research, presents a revolutionary five-step program for repairing troubled relationships with spouses and lovers, children and other family members, friends, and even your boss or colleagues at work. Drawing on a host of powerful new studies, as well as his 29 years of analyzing relationships and conducting relationship therapy, Gottman provides the tools you need to make your relationships thrive. Introducing the empowering concept of the "emotional bid," which he calls the fundamental unit of emotional connection, Gottman shows that all good relationships are built through a process of making and receiving successful bids. These bids range from such subtle gestures as a quick question, a look, or a comment to the most probing and intimate ways we communicate. Gottman's research reveals that people in happy relationships make bidding and responding to bids a high priority in their lives, and he has discovered the fascinating secrets behind mastering the bidding process. Those who do so tend to "turn toward" bids from others, whereas most problems in relationships stem from either "turning away" or "turning against" bids for connection."