Manhood
Ballantyne felt that the old saying "boys will be boys" was not correct. Instead, he believed that boys must be trained up from boys to be true men and not just left on their own "to be boys". He said:
"Boys [should be] inured from childhood to trifling risks and slight dangers of every possible description, such as tumbling into ponds and off of trees, etc., in order to strengthen their nervous system.... They ought to practice leaping off heights into deep water. They ought never to hesitate to cross a stream over a narrow unsafe plank for fear of a ducking. They ought never to decline to climb up a tree, to pull fruit merely because there is a possibility of their falling off and breaking their necks. I firmly believe that boys were intended to encounter all kinds of risks, in order to prepare them to meet and grapple with risks and dangers incident to man's career with cool, cautious self-possession... -R.M. Ballantyne, The Gorilla Hunters
R.M. Ballantyne also believed in firm manly friendships in boys. He knew how important it is for boys to have good wholesome friends. In almost all his books, he sets his characters around other young men or even older men who speak into their lives.
Ballantyne had few important friendships when he was a boy, so understood all the more just how important they were. Some people have criticized him for his Scottish Covenanter/Reformation theology and perspective on life. Others have complained about his so-called "puritanism" found in all his books. But rather than being points of criticism, it is Ballantyne's strong theology which sets him apart from so many other authors.
During his life he would write over 80 books. In 1866 he married Jane Dickson Grant. They had four sons and two daughters. Ballantyne died in Rome, Italy, on 8 February 1894.
One of the young men directly touched by Ballantyne was Robert Louis Stevenson (1850-1894). This young man was so impressed with the story of
The Coral Island (1857) that he would later base portions of his famous book
Treasure Island (1881) on themes found in Ballantyne. In fact, he honored Ballantyne in the introduction to
Treasure Island with the following poem:
- To the Hesitating Purchaser
- :If sailor tales to sailor tunes,
- :Storm and adventure, heat and cold,
- :If schooners, islands, and maroons,
- :And buccaneers, and buried gold,
- :And all the old romance, retold
- :Exactly in the ancient way,
- :Can please, as me they pleased of old,
- :The wiser youngsters of today:
- :So be it, and fall on! If not,
- :If studious youth no longer crave,
- :His ancient appetites forgot,
- :Kingston, or Ballantyne the brave,
- :Or Cooper of the wood and wave:
- :So be it, also! And may I
- :And all my pirates share the grave
- :Where these and their creations lie!
Slavery
Ballantyne was an opponent of the slave trade, stating that: