Sanford Friedman (June 11, 1928 – April 20, 2010) was an American novelist.
Friedman's Totempole (1965) features an army love affair between its protagonist and a North Korean doctor war prisoner. The first Jewish gay main character in American fiction is Stephen Wolfe of Friedman's Totempole.
Friedman was born in New York City, the son of Leonard and Madeline (Uris) Friedman. A 1945 graduate of the Horace Mann School, in the same class as his lifelong friend Allard K. Lowenstein, Friedman earned a BFA from the Carnegie Institute of Technology. From 1951 to 1953 he served in the US Army as a military policeman in Korea, where he was awarded a Bronze Star. He has taught writing at the Juilliard School and at SAGE. He was a friend to many noted artists like Lee Krasner and Fritz Bultman, and for several years Friedman was the companion of the noted American poet, translator, and critic Richard Howard. Howard dedicated his poem "1915: A Pre-Raphaelite Ending, London" to him. Friedman was also active off-Broadway as a writer and producer, collaborating with actor Howard Da Silva; author Ben Maddow; and playwright Arnold Perl. Perl authored a 1957 play, “Tevya and his Daughters,” co-produced by Friedman and starring Mike Kellin as Sholem Aleichem’s dairyman ... a production which inspired 1964’s “Fiddler on the Roof.” Friedman died of a heart attack in his Manhattan apartment on April 20, 2010.
Fritz Bultman: bronze sculpture 1963-1975, exhibition January 10 to February 7, 1976, with text by Sanford Friedman and footnotes to the exhibition by the artist (1976)
Playing the game: The Homosexual Novel in America by Roger Austen, Bobbs-Merrill, 1977.
Interview: A conversation with Richard Howard by Paul H. Gray, Text and Performance Quarterly, Volume 2 Issue 1 1981, pages 76—88
Alternative service: Families in recent American gay fiction. The Kenyon Review, 8(3), 72-90. Bergman, D. (1986).
Diminishing Fictions: Essays on the Modern Novel and Its Critics by Bruce Bawer, Graywolf Press, 1988.
The Gay Novel in America (Garland Gay and Lesbian Studies) by James Levin, Garland Publishing, 1991.
Gaiety Transfigured: Gay Self-Representation in American Literature (Wisconsin Project on American Writers) by David Bergman, University of Wisconsin Press, 1991.
Contemporary gay American novelists: A Bio-Bibliographical Critical Sourcebook by Emmanuel Sampath Nelson, Greenwood, 1993.
Queer Representations: Reading Lives, Reading Cultures (A Center for Lesbian and Gay Studies Book) by Martin Duberman, NYU Press, 1997.
Sanford Friedman in Contemporary Jewish-American Novelists by Joel Shatzky, Greenwood Publishing, 1997.
Particular Voices: Portraits of Gay and Lesbian Writers by Robert Giard, The MIT Press, 1997.
Lineland: Mortality and Mercy on the Internet's Pynchon-L@Waste.Or by Jules Siegel, Intangible Assets Manufacturing, 1997, p. 90.
Edward Albee: a singular journey by Mel Gussow, Simon & Schuster, 1999.
Gay Histories and Cultures: An Encyclopedia by George E. Haggerty, Garland, 2000
Gay Fiction Speaks: Conversations With Gay Novelists by Richard Canning Softcover, Columbia Univ Press, 2001.
The Violet Hour: The Violet Quill and the Making of Gay Culture by David Bergman, Columbia University Press, 2004.
Brainwashing: The Fictions of Mind Control : A Study of Novels and Films Since World War II by David Seed, Kent State University Press, 2004.
The Oxford Encyclopedia of American literature vol. 2; William Faulkner-Mina Loy, edited by Jay Parini, Oxford University Press, 2004.
The Man Who Would Marry Susan Sontag: And Other Intimate Literary Portraits of the Bohemian Era by Edward Field, University of Wisconsin Press, 2006.
Lee Krasner's Skepticism and Her Emergent Postmodernism by Robert Hobbs, Woman's Art Journal 28, No. 2 (Fall/Winter 2007).
American Jewish Fiction: A JPS Guide by Josh Lambert, Jewish Publication Society, 2009.