Hello there Lesbian Friends!!

How many of you are FOR having a sex buddy? I mean, the friendship is there, the trust is there and the sex is great. But neither of you wants a commitment. 
Are you FOR it, or AGAINST it?  And please explain WHY in your post. 
Thanks!!!!!! :)

(Reason I ask **Besides being nosy.. LOL** is because I finally started putting my book together and may incorporate a same sex "convenience friend" if you know what I'm saying... hehehe)

Please don't be shy!  If you just don't want to post here for the world to see, you could PM me.  I totally respect your privacy and your opinions.

Thank you, in advance.

Dawn  :)

Um, yes, I would have had a friend with benefits--no strings.  I think it is a plausible relationship in which there is no jealousy involved.  I could answer more, but not sure what you are looking to know.

Spill it ALL, Baaaaabyyyyyy!  LOL  

Just tell what you are comfortable with. You can tell me via PM if you want. Who knows, maybe you'll end up in my book. (Which is flying, by the way! Woo hoo!)   Thanks Tammy, you always make my day. hehe

I'm certainly not against it, but it wouldn't be my way in the world.  I think DP of 17 years would be fried!!

i think that a relationship like that is totally possible. before i met my partner of now 5 yrs, i had a friend that was also my "sex" buddy as you put it. we knew enough about our relationship that we adored each other as friends and had a physical attraction to one another, but that we would also make a very bad couple. and that living together 24/7, we would butt heads more often than not. i think a no-strings sexual relationship is as plausible as anything else, as long as both aprties know that is all there is and will be aside from the friendship.

My DP would love it but only if it was a 3some..... just can't seem to want to SHARE me unless I involve everyone all at once. Uhmm, WEIRD! I think that would be too weird.  Ya know?

poly isnt for everyone

yep, exactly.

well Dawn, aren't you just quick on the replies..lol

For Me:  Monogamy, Intimacy and honesty says it all

Yes, I'm quick... hehehe  I loooooooove being able to talk about this stuff openly and not get judged for it.  I was looking at titles of Lesbian erotica on Amazon.com today and I got so horny, I couldn't breathe.  LOL

And let me tell you, there are some HOT titles out there!!  I want to read some "First time sex" stuff, Gawwwd that's HOT! Whew......  hehehe

Nothing wrong with friends with benefits!! As long as there is no jealousy and no feelings, sex with no strings can be mind blowing in my opinion.

Ack. That made me sound kind of slutty. Just keep in mind, I have been with the same person for the past 2 years! :P

lol. Colleen... and i've been with my partner for 5 years this october..october 2nd to be exact

Kristi R,   Happy Anniversary!!!!!!!!!!

lol. thanks. She is the heart and soul of our happy family... despite her modesty.  i'm a lucky woman.

Before I married my husband I had sex buddies. Now my husband understands my urges to be with a woman, and he is fine if i ''hook up'' with one of my friends for a no strings attached type of thing.

my husband and i dont think its that weird, where we are from there are alot of ''swingers'' but i hate being called that, lol. it isnt so bad if your the type of person who  can seperate ''love'' type emotions from sex and just go on pure physical lust. But I know that there aren't that many people in the world who will agree with me, o-well. lol. but hey to each their own is what i always say.

Thank you for being so honest and open about this! You girls ROCK!

No problem, I think it's so awesome that you're writing a book :) And to be honest I wish I was the person that could separate emotions from sex, because it would be so exhilarating to experience so much outside the realm of a relationship.