How many times are we going to make ourselves crazy, trying to create the "perfect" Christmas? I found this book to be very helpful in getting me to curb my perfection anxiety. Maybe I've gone too far in the opposite direction? All I know is that I now have the time and peace to enjoy Christmas and family. And I do NOT fall apart with stress over it. Sure, there's a lot of just plain common sense in this book, but sometimes we just need to see it in print.