I really like Aisha. I loved her on "Talk Soup." I even liked her on "Ghost Whisperer" because it was such a departure for her. And I thought I would like this book because, I thought, it was about a single, postmodern girl, as the title stated. At first it was. She wrote about having guy friends who would tell you what they really thought about sex and dating, which was cool. Until I read, " ... my husband" among the words. That's when she lost me! I don't know why. I guess because I thought it was going to be like insider trading, getting to really know the opposite sex in a comedic way. It was, for the first half of the book.