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Subject: Can you unfriend someone here?
Date Posted: 2/26/2012 6:57 PM ET
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I seem to have lost a friend who just asked me to friend her a few months ago.  Should I not have gotten some kind of notice if a friend was deleted from my list?

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Date Posted: 2/26/2012 7:47 PM ET
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No, no notice is sent.  I had a member drop me once.  Sometimes though I have had some get dropped by acccident.  You could always PM the person and ask.  Or their account might be closed now or suspended.  Just a thought.

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Date Posted: 2/26/2012 11:06 PM ET
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I used to just accept every friend request that came along even if I didn't know them and had no message indicating why the person wanted to be my friend. The friend list got longer and longer and harder to manage, and then suddenly I was getting tons of requests when I got the Gold Key thing, and decided enough was enough...I declined all the new requests (unless it was someone I actually knew) and also deleted about half my existing list because I had no idea who they were. I didn't send any sort of message...some of those folks had been on my list for years and I never did know why. LOL

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Date Posted: 2/26/2012 11:20 PM ET
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Yeah, if someone wants to friend you, it would be nice if they told you why. I recently had such an offer, but when I looked at the person's bookshelf I had no idea why I was asked. Their concept of reading material was so far different than my own, it staggered me.

I actually asked another person why  she wanted to be my friend and I was told it was because I lived in the same state. Hey, there are people who live in my neighborhood that I don't even talk to.  I guess some people just like having a lot of 'friends.'

This reminds me of the cartoon of a woman leaning over her husband's shoulder as he sat in front of his computer.  She asked, "How come you have 278 friends on Facebook, but none in real life?" 

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Date Posted: 2/27/2012 6:13 PM ET
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Thanks for the ideas.  I will PM her since earlier this month she posted in the Raok forum that she was looking for other gold key members to be her friend-- she probably got dropped off my list due to a glitch.

I do NOT have friend requests set to automatic. I have a standard paragraph I send out to people I don't know who request me as a friend.  My "friends" here should expect periodic PMs from me.  I do not friend people simply because we share book interests.  This is the only social network I participate in and I am definitely not into the "who has the most friends" competition.  In fact, as a MH professional, I am anti- virtual addiction and find FB to have lots of negative impact upon our young people. 

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Date Posted: 2/27/2012 7:28 PM ET
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I just set my Friends list to automatically accept.  I don't even look at it.  If someone wants to friend me, I don't care why.  If they unfriend me, I would probably never notice.