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I seem to have lost a friend who just asked me to friend her a few months ago. Should I not have gotten some kind of notice if a friend was deleted from my list? |
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No, no notice is sent. I had a member drop me once. Sometimes though I have had some get dropped by acccident. You could always PM the person and ask. Or their account might be closed now or suspended. Just a thought. |
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I used to just accept every friend request that came along even if I didn't know them and had no message indicating why the person wanted to be my friend. The friend list got longer and longer and harder to manage, and then suddenly I was getting tons of requests when I got the Gold Key thing, and decided enough was enough...I declined all the new requests (unless it was someone I actually knew) and also deleted about half my existing list because I had no idea who they were. I didn't send any sort of message...some of those folks had been on my list for years and I never did know why. LOL Cheryl |
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Yeah, if someone wants to friend you, it would be nice if they told you why. I recently had such an offer, but when I looked at the person's bookshelf I had no idea why I was asked. Their concept of reading material was so far different than my own, it staggered me. I actually asked another person why she wanted to be my friend and I was told it was because I lived in the same state. Hey, there are people who live in my neighborhood that I don't even talk to. I guess some people just like having a lot of 'friends.' This reminds me of the cartoon of a woman leaning over her husband's shoulder as he sat in front of his computer. She asked, "How come you have 278 friends on Facebook, but none in real life?" |
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Thanks for the ideas. I will PM her since earlier this month she posted in the Raok forum that she was looking for other gold key members to be her friend-- she probably got dropped off my list due to a glitch. I do NOT have friend requests set to automatic. I have a standard paragraph I send out to people I don't know who request me as a friend. My "friends" here should expect periodic PMs from me. I do not friend people simply because we share book interests. This is the only social network I participate in and I am definitely not into the "who has the most friends" competition. In fact, as a MH professional, I am anti- virtual addiction and find FB to have lots of negative impact upon our young people. |
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I just set my Friends list to automatically accept. I don't even look at it. If someone wants to friend me, I don't care why. If they unfriend me, I would probably never notice. |
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