This book has some encouraging scriptures but I was looking for more of a first hand account of how a wife lives through this nightmare and finds a way to still be with a husband who struggles. I wanted a honest, authentic, raw book coupled with some verse but this is more of a bible study and list of expectations to "move on, forgive, and support your husband." There is not much on how to get help yourself and work through the devastating pain and confusion felt as a spouse finding this out. If you are in this position regardless of whether you chose to stay or divorce (which is your choice) try to find a good Christian psychologist who will support, listen, and help you work through this. So far my therapist, medication for PTSD and depression, has been a great help.