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Why Are We Still Fighting?: How to End Your Schema Wars and Start Connecting with the People You Love
Why Are We Still Fighting How to End Your Schema Wars and Start Connecting with the People You Love Author:Maureen Kirby Lassen Why are satisfying relationships so elusive? And why do so many couples fall into patterns of repetitive conflict? Psychologist Maureen Kirby Lassen approaches the problem in a radically new way by explaining how our mental models about the world, or schemas, can short-circuit our relationships-and how understanding and challenging your own sch... more »emas can become the essential step in a healing process. Lassen teaches you how to become your own "relationship expert" by recognizing the influence of early parent-child schemas, assessing the accuracy of your own models, analyzing how schemas influence your own and your partner's "bonding style," and developing strategies for effective long-term change.« less