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Back When We Were Grownups
Author: Anne Tyler
Book Information
Publisher: Knopf
Book Type: Hardcover
Rating: 41

ISBN-13: 9780375412530 - ISBN-10: 0375412530
Pages: 288

Book Description:
"Once upon a time, there was a woman who discovered that she had turned into the wrong person." So Anne Tyler opens this irresistible new novel.

The woman is Rebecca Davitch, a fifty-three-year-old grandmother. Is she an impostor in her own life? she asks herself. Is it indeed her own life? Or is it someone else’s?

On the surface, Beck, as she is known to the Davitch clan, is outgoing, joyous, a natural celebrator. Giving parties is, after all, her vocation—something she slipped into even before finishing college, when Joe Davitch spotted her at an engagement party in his family’s crumbling nineteenth-century Baltimore row house, where giving parties was the family business. What caught his fancy was that she seemed to be having such a wonderful time. Soon this large-spirited older man, a divorcé with three little girls, swept her into his orbit, and before she knew it she was embracing his extended family plus a child of their own, and hosting endless parties in the ornate, high-ceilinged rooms of The Open Arms.

Now, some thirty years later, after presiding over a disastrous family picnic, Rebecca is caught un-awares by the question of who she really is. How she answers it—how she tries to recover her girlhood self, that dignified grownup she had once been—is the story told in this beguiling, funny, and deeply moving novel.

As always with Anne Tyler’s novels, once we enter her world it is hard to leave. But in Back When We Were Grownups she so sharpens our perceptions and awakens so many untapped feelings that we come away not only refreshed and delighted, but also infinitely wiser.

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Genres:
Other Versions of this Book: Paperback, Audio Cassette (Unabridged), Audio CD (Unabridged), Hardcover


Top Member Reviews

Karla F. (KarlaF) from CHAMPAIGN, IL wrote on 8/14/2006...

1 member(s) found this review helpful.

This was a very thoroughly enjoyable book-- not fluff fiction, but a wonderful and easy read anyway. This book shares several themes with Tyler's more recent book, Digging to American-- including older women searching for love and companionship (subtheme: widowhood), the wackiness but comforting aspects of extended family, and stepchildren. The characters in this book are incredibly deep and often moving, including an elder who turns 100 (and has a vividly described party), a daughter obsessed with making gourmet food (she's a caterer) that most of her family would rather not eat (and her resentment around that), and a very creative but weird preteen boy. It's a book that you will want to keep reading until you find out what happens in the end-- but then you realize that the book's main value was about how it made you think about your own life and family.


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Eloise S. from TOLEDO, OH wrote on 2/15/2007...


Once upon a time, there was a woman who discovered that she had turned into the wrong person.Is she an impostor in her own life/Is it indeed her own life?Isit someone else's.

Kay P. from CHARLESTOWN, NH wrote on 2/10/2007...


Anne Tyler also wrote the Mermaid Chair which I loved. This book was a good read but I didn't think as good as the Mermaid Chair. It shows family interaction, sometimes funny, sometimes sad. It also shows how the family uses their stepmother, Beck for support, babysitting, caring for an elder member, etc. It also shows how Beck through questioning her role gets satisfaction by being needed.

Judy D. (bactitech) from TOLEDO, OH wrote on 10/17/2006...


For anyone 50+ years old who likes to read Anne Tyler, this book is worth the read. I couldn't get into it at first; the character's names are trite and cutesy, but after I got past the first scene, I couldn't wait to put it down. I started listening to it on a library audio book. I had bought the hard cover off the library's "withdrawn" shelf. I found I had to read it as listening to it was just too slow. I would definitely read another book by this author.

Nancy M. (ImL8) from EVANSTON, WY wrote on 8/9/2006...


Back When We Were Grownups is a thought provoking book full of wonderful insights.

Ashley Y. (ashley) from PECOS, NM wrote on 7/27/2006...


Ann Tyler at her best. This is a moving, loving, joyous and tragic tale of people so real you may know them all. An excellent read.

Diana C. (dianac) from BEND, OR wrote on 7/13/2006...


My favorite author, EVERYTHING she writes is fantastic!

Rene' P. (knitfan) from PUYALLUP, WA wrote on 7/6/2006...


Rebecca Davitch is a 53 year old grandmother caught unaware by the question of who she really is. How she answers it is told in this funny and moving novel.

Carol G. (Tata) from ANTIOCH, CA wrote on 6/20/2006...


I loved this book. Although it has been awhile since I read it, I still remember it. I have read all of Ann Tyler's books.

Michele K. (michelek) from SUGAR LAND, TX wrote on 1/12/2006...


always a good read

Sarah B. (Pixie328) from CAMP HILL, PA wrote on 12/14/2005...


I really enjoyed this book. The main character, Beck, is so intriquing and really leaves you wanting more and puts you in her shoes as well