
Gayla G. (
gongwer) - Tucson, AZ wrote on 11/4/2008...
A touching, poignant, yet intense story of the timeless bonds between women - and how they truly guide they passages of our lives, contrary to what men think they understand. :) Set in the time of foot binding and strict social obligations, this beautifully narrated story transports you to life in a society where rules guided every minute of every day for women - if not their thoughts.
If you liked "Wild Swans" you will enjoy this. Fascinating descriptions of the life of women in rural China and the few friendships they are permitted to make, the secret written language "nu shu" used only by women, foot binding, and the ceremonies and seasons that mark the life changes from daughter to wife to mother. I learnt a lot and most of the factual information comes from the author's interviews with an elderly Chinese woman (in her 90s) and her own Chinese/American family. Looking back on her unexpecedly long life (women expected to die in their 40s) has given this one lady a unique perspective. Audio version very well read by Jodi Long.

Candy B. (
candieb) wrote on 2/10/2008...
I ended up grabbing this one (abridged) because my book club is reading it, but I wasn't going to have time to read it, working too much. So, I downloaded it and listed to it. It was okay. The narrator was actually very pleasant - the story, of course, was beautiful. I guess I retain very little of my reading because I didn't see any difference - *laugh*. This is an absolutely beautiful book, one that makes the hairs on the back of your neck stand up. The foot-binding... oh, the foot-binding.
But one thing that I realized while reading this is I don't recall any books written by the males in this time-period, etc... I wonder what they really felt?
Hmmm....