Novelist Fenton Johnson watched his lover, San Francisco high-school teacher Larry Rose, die of AIDS in a Paris hospital in 1990 after an intense 3 year relationship. Rose was HIV-positive but asymptomatic when they met, and while their lovemaking was haunted by fear of contagion, the author remains HIV-negative. Rose was the only child of German Jewish Holocaust survivors. His father, Leo, was imprisoned and beaten by the Nazis in Holland, escaped and hid for three years with broken vertebrae had a very different background from that of Johnson, who grew up Catholic and the youngest of 9 in an isolated Appalachian town in Kentucky. Johnson writes with crystal clarity of his gradual acceptance by his lover's emigrant parents, of coming out to his own widowed mother at 31, of Rose's gradual physical deterioration and of his working through grief toward emotional renewal. This is a remarkable memoir, touching, funny, searing, eloquent, beautifully alive.
Excellent - recommend highly
