Getting the Love You Want: A Guide for Couples
Getting the Love You Want A Guide for Couples Author:Harville Hendrix The bestselling guide to transforming an intimate relationship into a lasting source of love and companionship., with a new foreword and chapter from the author — In Getting the Love You Want, Dr. Harville Hendrix presents the relationship skills that have already helped hundreds of thousands of couples to replace confrontation and critici... more »sm with a healing process of mutual growth and support. This extraordinary practical guide describes the revolutionary technique of Imago Relationship Therapy, which combines a number of disciplines--including the behavioral sciences, depth psychology, cognitive therapy, and Gestalt therapy, among others-- to create a program to resolve conflict and renew communication and passion.
Getting the Love You Want describes the three stages of intimate relationships, provides illustrative case studies and gives helpful recommendations to overcome the obstacles in those stages to create a stronger bond between couples. First, he chronicles the stages of most relationships-attraction, romantic love and the power struggle-and suggests ways for partners to identify the conflicts associated with each of them. Then, he explores methods for achieving a "Conscious Marriage," where the early phases of romance are rekindled and confrontation is slowly replaced by growth and support. Finally, Dr. Hendrix incorporates these ideas into a unique therapeutic course, offering a series of proven exercises that lead to insight, resolution and revitalization. Step by step, he describes how to communicate with greater accuracy and sensitivity, how to let go of self-defeating behaviors, and how to focus energy on meeting each partners' needs.
With Getting the Love You Want couples in any stage of a relationship can resolve their conflicts and achieve mutual emotional satisfaction.« less
If you really believe that marriage is a spiritual path this book is for you. Hendrix outlines ways to reinvigorate flagging relationships and encourages the reader to take responsibilitly for their own emotions and issues while cutting their partner some slack. Not all marriages should be saved, but many don't have to fail. This book shows that with compassion, patience and rigorous self examination a relationship can be the ground for spiritual transformation and personal growth.