Gothic Charm School: An Essential Guide for Goths and Those Who Love Them
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Genres: Parenting & Relationships, Reference, Teen & Young Adult, Nonfiction
Book Type: Paperback
Author:
Genres: Parenting & Relationships, Reference, Teen & Young Adult, Nonfiction
Book Type: Paperback
I'm a little sadden by the reviews of this book. As a proud goth, I see the humor in this. I applaud her for giving some insight on the history of goth and a lot of the references she uses.
To me, I see Venters's message in 3 parts.
First, for up and coming kinder goths {baby bats} on how their behavior does indeed affect 'goth stereotypes'. Such as, that we're all devil worshipers out to cause havoc as the media suggests. But this isn't the case. In fact, she does go into how this isn't true and even refers some positive media to look into so the 'gothling' can decide for themselves.
Second, for well established goths from the 80s {Trad goths}who are very much set in stone with everything being traditional as the scene started. The stereotype being that they are annoyed in pretty much anything that's called 'goth' today and will flip out on 'goth sub-genres'. This in particular, Venters's being the age range of said group, does mention that diversity in the goth subculture can be a good thing.
Third, for parents/friends/room mates of goths. She explains that there are something we do normally like everyone else and then there are just somethings that others may be disturbed by. Like graveyard picnics for example. Although, that would vary upon the goth and goth type. lol
As for the third person thing, it's only a reflection of Jillian's personality in text. All goths are creative in some fashion, it's just of her many talents is being flamboyant as a lady of a neo Victorian does. Plus, she does mention that classic theatrical themed books pulls at her heartstrings, it doesn't surprise me that it would be present in her writing. But rest assured, Venters's does take a break from third person and properly introduces herself.
Lastly, this makes a lovely introduction to goth to new comers. But I would also suggest reading more books along the roots of music subculture as well as d.i.y. ethics, and social aspects. "Paint It Black" and "What Is Goth" by Voltaire, "Goth Chic" by Gavin Baddeley, "The Goth Bible" by Nancy Kilpatrick, and pretty much any book Mick Mercer ever wrote.
To me, I see Venters's message in 3 parts.
First, for up and coming kinder goths {baby bats} on how their behavior does indeed affect 'goth stereotypes'. Such as, that we're all devil worshipers out to cause havoc as the media suggests. But this isn't the case. In fact, she does go into how this isn't true and even refers some positive media to look into so the 'gothling' can decide for themselves.
Second, for well established goths from the 80s {Trad goths}who are very much set in stone with everything being traditional as the scene started. The stereotype being that they are annoyed in pretty much anything that's called 'goth' today and will flip out on 'goth sub-genres'. This in particular, Venters's being the age range of said group, does mention that diversity in the goth subculture can be a good thing.
Third, for parents/friends/room mates of goths. She explains that there are something we do normally like everyone else and then there are just somethings that others may be disturbed by. Like graveyard picnics for example. Although, that would vary upon the goth and goth type. lol
As for the third person thing, it's only a reflection of Jillian's personality in text. All goths are creative in some fashion, it's just of her many talents is being flamboyant as a lady of a neo Victorian does. Plus, she does mention that classic theatrical themed books pulls at her heartstrings, it doesn't surprise me that it would be present in her writing. But rest assured, Venters's does take a break from third person and properly introduces herself.
Lastly, this makes a lovely introduction to goth to new comers. But I would also suggest reading more books along the roots of music subculture as well as d.i.y. ethics, and social aspects. "Paint It Black" and "What Is Goth" by Voltaire, "Goth Chic" by Gavin Baddeley, "The Goth Bible" by Nancy Kilpatrick, and pretty much any book Mick Mercer ever wrote.
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