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Book Review of I Wore the Ocean in the Shape of a Girl: A Memoir

I Wore the Ocean in the Shape of a Girl: A Memoir
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Everyone has a story to tell. Kelle Groom goes beyond that. She tells a tragic story in painful increments of beautiful prose. The result is an amazing book by a very special woman.


At the very early age of 15, Kelle finds alcohol as a way to express her. She loses herself to it, not realizing it until it is too late. Already an alcoholic, she has a baby at the age of nineteen. Her family supports her, as her aunt adopts the infant. Adding more sorrow to Kelles painful life, the baby is diagnosed at nine months with leukemia, and dies at 14 months of age. Kelle loses him twice.


Already out of control, Kelle is in a freefall downward spiral, fast on her way to self- destruction. It takes the real desire to stop drinking and the connection with the right people who can actually help Kelle attain sobriety.


This is a unique story on many levels, all heart-rending, all gut wrenching. But at the very heart of this book is Kelle the mother, who survived it all, who needed acceptance and forgiveness ultimately from herself.


She did survive, and she found the courage to share her story. She gives hope a new voice. You cannot read this book and not be somehow changed by it.